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So Confused.

I’m 19 years old, just moved out of home, and my life has always been pretty much perfect.
But right now everything is a mess and I can’t handle it. I’m failing so many classes because I can’t concentrate, and I’m not getting enough hours at work so I’m financially struggling. I got into a huge fight with my best friend, miss my family who I can only talk to on the phone, and feel like I have lost all faith. I’m also not taking care of my health, and it makes me feel even worse knowing that I shouldn’t be complaining b/c things could be much worse.
Even when things seem to be going well, I feel sad and anxious and I feel a horrible feeling like something is missing. I don’t think a word has been made yet to describe quite how I feel; maybe at least knowing the word for how I feel would help, so others could understand. Please help, I really don’t know what to do.

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~Shie~ offline Verified User (5 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Gloversville, NY, US | 4 years, 5 months ago (4 minutes after post)

it sounds like you are finally growing up… its called responsibility… stress… dealing with life the way that adults do..

my suggestion is to take a moment and relax… sit down, make a list of pros and cons of your situation… when you see the con side, think about how you can make them better…

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Morgan!! offline Verified User (4 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 5 months ago (9 minutes after post)

It does sound like you are suffering from stress. I went through similar problems at the end of my Sophomore year of college. I was failing a couple of classes and managed to get a sinus infection and urinary tract infection at the same time. NOT FUN! Will you be going home for the holiday break? Maybe that will help… And is there any way to patch things up with your best friend?

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pluto_goddes offline Verified User (6 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Austin, TX, US | 4 years, 5 months ago (2 hours, 58 minutes after post)

OH i know how youfeel, that was me about 9 months ago. Start by taking a break, just for one day, then tackle everyting individually. Make sure everything is taken cre of one thing at a time, it makes it easier. Take an hour every day just for you time. Call your family whenever you think about them or miss them. I promise, its tough, but it will get easier in time!

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peacefulwarrior offline Verified User (4 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 years, 5 months ago (1 week after post)

Try and find ways to relax.

Try this technique:

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It will help you get all your todo stuff out of your head.

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Anoymnous edited this post 1 year, 9 months ago. Read the previous text »

So Confused.
I’m 19 years old, just moved out of home, and my life has always been pretty much perfect.
But right now everything is a mess and I can’t handle it. I’m failing so many classes because I can’t concentrate, and I’m not getting enough hours at work so I’m financially struggling. I got into a huge fight with my best friend, miss my family who I can only talk to on the phone, and feel like I have lost all faith. I’m also not taking care of my health, and it makes me feel even worse knowing that I shouldn’t be complaining b/c things could be much worse.
Even when things seem to be going well, I feel sad and anxious and I feel a horrible feeling like something is missing. I don’t think a word has been made yet to describe quite how I feel; maybe at least knowing the word for how I feel would help, so others could understand. Please help, I really don’t know what to do.

Anoymnous edited this post 1 year, 9 months ago. Read the previous text »

So Confused.
I’m 19 years old, just moved out of home, and my life has always been pretty much perfect.
But right now everything is a mess and I can’t handle it. I’m failing so many classes because I can’t concentrate, and I’m not getting enough hours at work so I’m financially struggling. I got into a huge fight with my best friend, miss my family who I can only talk to on the phone, and feel like I have lost all faith. I’m also not taking care of my health, and it makes me feel even worse knowing that I shouldn’t be complaining b/c things could be much worse.
Even when things seem to be going well, I feel sad and anxious and I feel a horrible feeling like something is missing. I don’t think a word has been made yet to describe quite how I feel; maybe at least knowing the word for how I feel would help, so others could understand. Please help, I really don’t know what to do.d

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