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Are you old enough to decide who you want to live with? Or would your dad want you to stay with him if you wanted to?

littlenick wrote:
Are you old enough to decide who you want to live with? Or would your dad want you to stay with him if you wanted to?

What would you like to do?

I always hate it when parents make their children choose between them because then they try to use the children to get back at each other. Specially in situations where both parents or at least one hates the other.

think about why you live with your mom now… then look at the reasons in which you dont live with your dad. then ask yourself where you would be better off… your friends will stay your friends… thats what weekends, phones and computers are for… to keep in touch.

You don’t need to choose between parents, you need to choose happiness and where you’ll blossom, what home is the most rewarding for you, and I don’t mean easy, but the one that means the most makes your heart smile, motivates you to your most potential, etc..

To me, the spending time is worth more than anything else, to this day it’s an important part of my life.

When growing up, I would have given anything for my Dad to spend even half the time with me that my Grandpa did..

mona3709 wrote:

barely wrote:
You don’t need to choose between parents, you need to choose happiness and where you’ll blossom, what home is the most rewarding for you, and I don’t mean easy, but the one that means the most makes your heart smile, motivates you to your most potential, etc..

when im at my dads house im really happy but yat when im at my moms she spends time with me and that makes me happy to

so what makes you happy at each of the houses? you say that your mom spends time with you.. which is awesome…. what makes you happy at your dad’s?

Mona.. you are quite obviously an intelligent creature, does the same type of personal interaction go on at your Dads house as does at your Moms?

I don’t think she’s online anymore! *Sigh*