Thought help: Its getting to the point now where I can’t stop thinking about him 24/7! - Help.com

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I don’t think I’d put it like that . . . until you are BOTH serious!

i think he might be thinking about you too, u tend to think about people when they are thinking about you

Well, just don’t think about him 24/7 . . . not until you know he’s the “one.” But if your “like” is turning into “love,” tell him how you feel . . . don’t wait until you’re 87 years old to do it!

Be careful, but definitely get it out to him, maybe not too blatantly, try some ‘investigative techniques’ lol, maybe make some joke about you two being more then freinds and see how he reacts. Definitely dont let this slip by, I was in this situation about 4 years ago and never did anything about it, and well frankly I think I still love her, well I DO still love her, but by now we’ve moved to different (very different areas) and she’s involved with someone who’s talking about marriage. We still talk (very rarely, through email) and very very rarely we see each other, last i saw her she asked if it would be weird for her to have me as her well brides groom? and it just really sank in home, now i’m plagued with what the infinite what if’s. Well this has just become a little vent of mine, sorry, but my point is don’t let it go! Enjoy every minute your with him and strive for what your heart desires.

Yeah, that’s what kept me from doing anything, I didn’t want to change what we had, an awesome freindship, but if I had done something I dont think it would have changed the freindship even if she didn’t feel the same.

oh and did I mention that a year or two after we kind of parted ways that kind of came up in conversation, and sure enough she had a big crush on me and was wondering when i’d do something, then just thought i wasn’t interested in her like that, argh the regret

lol pretty much, or this is just an attempt of some stranger giving you bunk advice trying to live vicariously through you…. lol

I know an answer for this from you would be bias considering your current situation, but my situation was also my first love, and people tell me that the only reason I still feel this way is because everyone’s got that soft spot for their first love cuz its the first time you ever feel that way. So do you think he’s really the ‘one’ love of your existence, or is it just the first experience of love?

ok well its hard to say weter u shud tel him or not
it all rely depends on wat type of person he is
many men tend to feel claustrophobic and scared wen a women shows him how much she truly cares/loves him
and that wudnt exactly b the outcome ur hoping for
so jus make sur to think about wat wud most likely happen befor u decide to do amything in life (and by this im not saying that if uve come to the conclusion that the outcome will be bad, u shud not do tell him.. it is completely up to u, if u are willing to take any response from him including the worst possible senario.. then go for it!)
personaly i think this wud b a bad idea
why?
because some people tend to take advantage of the fact that someone wud do anythng for them
this meaning that
they wud possibly b less careless about wether they hurt u or maybe not feel as bad wen the do sumthing that upsests u
they might even start to test ur limits to see if wat u sed is actualy tru!
trust me ive been in this situation before
so rely, jus b careful
and remember, things hardly ever work out the way anyone wud like them to (its best to not expect the best reaction from him if u do decide to tell him)
hopefuly that helped
wen it comes down to making a decision, jus keep in mind that if u happen to hav made the rong one.. it is only an opportunity to learn, and not to b discouraged =]