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Isolation.

Is not good for me, i know. Can`t help it though. Kinda hard to live like this. I pushed all my friends away and just lived for my job. Now i cannot work anymore. Guess i took it too far. It went wery well for some years but i guess the past just catches you anyway. I have an ok life i guess. I have a house, a car and food on the table. Many people worse off than me. So why am i here complaining? Well, i have a serious problem with other people. One on one is ok. Two i can handle, three is a little too much and so on. Simple things like going to the supermarket is a hard thing to do. Wonder why i let myself go this far. I should have stopped up a long time ago and asked for help. I have tried to talk to people about this before but no one i turned to had any experience at all so i just figured it would go away eventually. It didn`t and have become a serious problem. Guess many people feel the same way.. Where am i going with this? Well i guess i don`t want anybody else to end up here. It`s not a happy place to be. Guess the conclusion will be that if u are struggling with anything, seek help. All that can happen is that u will feel better. If u want to walk it away u will destroy yourself and may end up in a place u definetly don`t want to be…

So beware people. And please… When u see people struggling…. Ride them until they realize it`s time to change.

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PaDLe offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (8 minutes after post)

That’s the spirit!!

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Srinh offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (49 minutes after post)

hmm, so you’re getting better?

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HeavenlyDemonic offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (18 hours, 44 minutes after post)

How are you coping with this. Did you get any professional help??

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Grim_Hardcastle offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 21 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (2 days, 19 hours after post)

The power of healing a troubled mind lies within each and every one of us. Sometimes it all seems dark but then it`s time to focus. We will always have the possibility for improvement but it`s in the darkest hour we need it the most. Then is also the time to seek guidence.

When you are lost in the woods after dark, you cannot see the map without a light…

I`ve just been worse since writing this post.. Still there is hope within my heart and i will stand fighting until they put me in the ground. There ain`t no reason to give up. I`m going through this so i can help others stay away from this pain.
It might seem a little odd but i guess after all something good will come of this.

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PaDLe offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (2 days, 23 hours after post)

I’m here if you needed anyone to talk to. Sometimes, it’s just like that. Things don’t go the ways we want it to be. we have to struggle for it. :D

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Grim_Hardcastle offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 21 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (3 days, 19 hours after post)

PaDLe wrote:
I’m here if you needed anyone to talk to. Sometimes, it’s just like that. Things don’t go the ways we want it to be. we have to struggle for it. :D

Without work i guess we never would get anything done. I appreciate your offer to talk. Guess people should be doin a whole lot more of that.

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PaDLe offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (3 days, 22 hours after post)

Be optimistic!! :D

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Grim_Hardcastle offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 21 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (6 days, 5 hours after post)

Well. I`m trying to be. Just seems a little hard these days. Ain`t givin up. It`s when you are climbing in the hills you move upwards…

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An Unknown Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (1 week, 3 days after post)

I guess if it was me I’d pretend to be someone else when I went out.. I was stuck at home with Agoraphobia for almost 10 years.. I got out of it by changing my diet which changed my brain chemistry.. but even now if I eat wrong I can’t look people in the eye.. weird I know.. but you probably have a similar problem.. start eating potatoes and meat and veg and nothing else for a while.. leave off all the wheat and milk and sweets and fried stuff.. so how you feell, the sun may shine again,

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An Unknown Location | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (2 months, 1 week after post)

hi what you have is a common complaint that most people dont admit too.
modern life is hard and the fact others push there way into your space without your permisson is hard to deal with ,so rather than just ingnoreing these feelings you let them become something real.

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Grim_Hardcastle offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 21 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (2 months, 1 week after post)

worm_o wrote:
hi what you have is a common complaint that most people dont admit too.
modern life is hard and the fact others push there way into your space without your permisson is hard to deal with ,so rather than just ingnoreing these feelings you let them become something real.

Well. It`s real enough. If it was just a product of my imagination then i guess it would be even harder. Still i find it kinda hard to deal with. I do function a little while at the time but not for long. Then it`s back in isolation. I feel threatened for some reason around people and i`m concerned about what might happen if i loose control of myself. There is a lot of emotion built up inside of me and if unleashed it may cause a lot of damage. Therefore this makes my anxiety even worse. There is a lot of complicated things causing everything in my mind. I`m in the process of sorting it all out so i guess i`m gonna be a lot better. Just need some critical re-wiring of the mind.

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