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Keep your head down.

You must stay on course, stay humble, work hard, ignore all the noise around, don’t hurt yourself or anyone else, and love just a little more than you need to. Keep your eye on the prize.

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berta offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (1 minute after post)

sometimes that isn’t enough

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pedagogy offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (4 minutes after post)

find a prize. change that dream into a goal. and it will be.

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berta offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (6 minutes after post)

I’m not the one to talk to today. normally i am really positive…today is one of those i am tired of everything going wrong days and christmas doesn’t help. i think i will just call it a day and try again tomarrow

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Michael Leibman offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
Littleton, CO, US | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (8 minutes after post)

Thanks for the advice.

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Neutra offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 19 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (8 minutes after post)

berta wrote:
I’m not the one to talk to today. normally i am really positive…today is one of those i am tired of everything going wrong days and christmas doesn’t help. i think i will just call it a day and try again tomarrow

Im with you, im alittle off today also.

But on the post, you can also say something like if one plan to a goal dosen’t work out, try another, and if you only see two options that don’t seem to work, then make a third one.

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An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (8 minutes after post)

mhm…
Then tell a magic formula that works for everyone…

And being humble isn’t necessary, you can pick multiple ways too, ignoring the things happening around you will only blind you and you need to keep informed, so that doesn’t work…

And if you keep looking the prize, you may stumble upon something you failed to see and fall…and that’d hurt you…and take time for you to get back on track…

I guess the best we can do is to seek balance, instead of focusing over one thing…although that might sound ironic…

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pedagogy offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (15 minutes after post)

you’re right. i do not have magic formula and words cannot and will never describe or explain a way to obtain ultimate happiness or satisfaction or success or acceptance or even just balance. But keep optimism in your mind and heart and believe in yourself. I want people, who turn to this website, to feel that there is at least someone out there who is attempting to put things into a positive perspective and recognizes that there may be a way to overcome both everyday and long-term problems, both being significant, with simple and honest communication, whatever the medium may be. good luck, and i hope you don’t need it.

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An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (18 minutes after post)

Well, I was in that..eerr…state, I’d call it, some time ago…then I realized that keeping optimistic all the time would bring me down eventually, and that I simply couldn’t…so I took a more realistic and objective point of view of things, that let me decide the best course of actions to follow in most cases…and to sincere, so far, I’ve liked what I’ve done…I’ve also come to accept myself as I am, so no worries with that…

Also, seeing as they’re, makes seeing a way out MUCH easier…

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An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (1 hour, 6 minutes after post)

This post title reminded me of two things. A Tupac song, and a 7-’s song of Billy Don’t Be A Hero. When I read the rest of the post, it has the same vibe too…except for some reason it came off more selfish to me.

Only my view of course…

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An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (1 hour, 6 minutes after post)

Whoops.

~Grace~ wrote:
a 70’s song

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Srinh offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (1 hour, 49 minutes after post)

yup. life is strange.

and we’re all going along for the ride.

whether we like it or not.

I am grateful to have the opportunity, tho.

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zoo_baw offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (7 hours, 23 minutes after post)

a very good one, but sometimes much easier said than done.

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An Unknown Location | 2 months, 2 weeks ago (9 months, 1 week after post)

Just follow the advice. It seems to me some people are able to follow and other people just “but” all the time.

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