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Kinda Emotional?

Well I just kinda feel i guess sad sometimes. Like randomly i will be really emotional. I think maybe im just lonely, I ended things with my guy about 2 months ago. Sometimes I just feel like crying and its mainly after thinking of my ex or thinking about wanted to be with someone.
Im not the kind of person who needs someone but it would be nice to have someone. It probably doesnt help that i keep gettin the guys who just want action. Id like to meet someone and get to know them and slowly progress into a real relationship, but thats hard to do these days.
Idk i think im just being stupid. Ill let myself cry and then get over it, i guess.

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11 months, 2 weeks ago (6 minutes after post)

its not stupid, i’m sure almost everyone has felt that way, and its normal to feel lonely after thinking about an ex, it is hard to find a really nice guy now adayz but you just gotta stop looking for him, cause it will just feel like it takes that much longer to find him, he will find you someday and completly sweep you off your feet, but just be patient… good things come to those who wait!

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An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (22 hours after post)

I really understand what you mean. It is really hard to find that special friend nowadays.

would you be content to have one online? or do you prefer a real life one?

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An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (1 day after post)

You can give me a try if you like and I’ll make sure it will last and won’t fade~

I would love to be near you so you can see me once or twice a month but unfortunately things don’t turn out the way its suppose to be.

My advice is keep trying theres always going to be company maybe not now but I hope it can be soon for you.

and I hope all things will go well for you.

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An Unknown Location | 6 months, 1 week ago (5 months, 1 week after post)

crying about this isnt a bad thing…but you have to realise its not the end of the world. You said that YOU ended things with this guy….if so…then why are you so unhappy now? you need to really think and remember the issues that made you leave the guy, and then maybe you’ll realise you did the right thing. If you made the mistake, and there really was no reason for you to end things, then you were obviously bored. We always want what we cant have, and this upsets us, and because we cant have it….it makes us want it more and more. Your young, and you have your family, you dont NEED a guy….not at this moment anyway. Concentrate on your relationships with your friends and family, because when things come crashing down, they will always be the ones to help you.

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