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is it true that when something feels to good to be true, it usually is?


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burgerkrieg offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 2 Add Friend #
An Unknown Location | 12 months ago (2 minutes after post)

No I don’t belive so–not all the time anyway. But I think the main point is not to rush into anything. Take your time to realize if it really is that good or if you have merely made it out to be more than it really is.

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lulzapalooz offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 1 Add Friend #
An Unknown Location | 12 months ago (4 minutes after post)

Sometimes you need to make mistakes to have fun.

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burgerkrieg offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 2 Add Friend #
An Unknown Location | 12 months ago (5 minutes after post)

lulzapalooz wrote:
Sometimes you need to make mistakes to have fun.

Like how?

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lulzapalooz offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 1 Add Friend #
An Unknown Location | 12 months ago (7 minutes after post)

burgerkrieg wrote:

lulzapalooz wrote:
Sometimes you need to make mistakes to have fun.

Like how?

Have you ever felt a hapiness that is so close to a sorrow?

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burgerkrieg offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 2 Add Friend #
An Unknown Location | 12 months ago (10 minutes after post)

Yes, but I wouldn’t call that fun.

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lulzapalooz offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 1 Add Friend #
An Unknown Location | 12 months ago (12 minutes after post)

burgerkrieg wrote:
Yes, but I wouldn’t call that fun.

Why not? I woke up a feeling machine! It’s my function! It’s your function! Take pleasure in your function! Enjoy life! Enjoy all of it! Eat it up and have it as the sustenance you crave!

Making mistakes is an art, OP, and you should learn to perfect it. Join the ranks of the alive, and jump from the bow into the ocean of “we who love, and having loved, hate.”

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pam_e_ca offline Verified User (3 years) Long Term User Shouts: 2 Add Friend #
An Unknown Location | 12 months ago (12 minutes after post)

the thing that is to good to be true is my bf… we have known each other for about 6 months, we have just stated dating and we find ourselves finding out that we have freackishly alot in common? is it possible for 2 people who have so much in common to actually find each other? or is could this all be a mean joke to get me to fall for him? ya its happened befor…

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lulzapalooz offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 1 Add Friend #
An Unknown Location | 12 months ago (14 minutes after post)

It’s possible, Pam, but the pain you could possibly feel would be worth the happiness you can earn. Don’t err on the side of caution now!

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lulzapalooz offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 1 Add Friend #
An Unknown Location | 12 months ago (15 minutes after post)

Oh, and let me add; It’s very possible. I lie sometimes to women I date. I don’t even know who I really am, to be honest, because I define myself by those around me. It’s possible, even likely, that he does it too. I think every man changes who he is daily. It’s the nature of man. It’s a unique and honest man who will admit he’s a liar.

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pam_e_ca offline Verified User (3 years) Long Term User Shouts: 2 Add Friend #
An Unknown Location | 12 months ago (17 minutes after post)

thank you!

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burgerkrieg offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 2 Add Friend #
An Unknown Location | 12 months ago (20 minutes after post)

pam_e_ca wrote:
the thing that is to good to be true is my bf… we have known each other for about 6 months, we have just stated dating and we find ourselves finding out that we have freackishly alot in common? is it possible for 2 people who have so much in common to actually find each other? or is could this all be a mean joke to get me to fall for him? ya its happened befor…

While I wouldn’t be rushing to marry the guy, you certainly have absolutely nothing to lose from pursuing the relationship. Regardless of how much you have in common, it takes a life time to make a relationship work. It just depends on how much you love him.

lulzapalooz wrote:

burgerkrieg wrote:
Yes, but I wouldn’t call that fun.

Why not? I woke up a feeling machine! It’s my function! It’s your function! Take pleasure in your function! Enjoy life! Enjoy all of it! Eat it up and have it as the sustenance you crave!

Making mistakes is an art, OP, and you should learn to perfect it. Join the ranks of the alive, and jump from the bow into the ocean of “we who love, and having loved, hate.”

I’m sorry but I have no clue what you are talking about… lol. If it were fun to make mistakes, no one would ever learn from them. We’d walk around like idiots making the same painful mistake again and again. It is good to make mistakes…but it is far from fun imho.

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zoo_baw offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 Add Friend #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 4 weeks ago (5 hours, 30 minutes after post)

most of the time, but definitely NOT always.

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