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Over 10 months and I can’t let it go

And now she got a job near my workplace. And I can’t stop torturing myself, I can’t keep myself from passing in front of that place… I HAVE to look inside and see her face, full of victory. Why can’t I let go?

We don’t even talk to each other, it’s like the first time I see her in all this time. And there isn’t a SINGLE day that I don’t think about her and how I could have done things differently (spelling?) to avoid this outcome.

I can’t think of anyone else.

I just wanted to put this out here. I’m too ashamed of my friends and family to talk about it with them.

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RuleCandela offline Verified User (3 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 1 week ago (18 minutes after post)

you should find someone to replace her, i know it sucks but like u cant keep torturing yourself like that, its not healthy.

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GB | 11 months, 1 week ago (46 minutes after post)

if you feel this strongly… maby you should talk to her about these feelings…. i wont garentee(how do you spell that??) you two will get back together but maby theres some things you two might have to clear up, after you talk maby you two can be friends, but remember… she probably dosent want another relationship so dont preasure her or start to think more can happen between you…

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An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 1 week ago (1 hour, 30 minutes after post)

Would you like to tell us why you had to break up? or you were never together officially in the first place?

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11 months, 1 week ago (3 hours, 6 minutes after post)

what happened between u 2? who dumped who?

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Richard Cor de Lyon offline Verified User (2 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 20 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 1 week ago (6 hours, 3 minutes after post)

http://help.com/post/211805-get-over-it

Bright blessings ~ Richard

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