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i really like this girl at school and im pretty confident that she likes me back by the way she acts and talks towards me. my parents always tease me about how i cant have a girlfriend until im 20 but something about the way they say it makes me think they might be serious. i dont want to become “just friends” with this girl, and i dont know how to move forward from here. i am somewhat shy which might cause a bit of an issue.

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SynderS 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 12 months ago (5 minutes after post)

Awww, your adorable. In my opinion, your parents probably tease you because that’s what parents do, they like to bother their children. But im sure your parents would love it if you had a girlfriend. For example: my younger sister has been teased by my dad since I dont know when, about not allowed having a boyfriend till she 20. She’s 14, going on 15 and she got her first boyfriend last friday. She told our dad and POOF! He had this big smile, laughed a little chuckled and said “awesome! whats his name?” So if you do date this girl, I’m sure your parents will understand that you like her, and it’s okay. As for what your next move should be: You live once, ask the cutie out. :]

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An Unknown Location | 12 months ago (14 minutes after post)

first part is you cant just hook up w/ a girl girls wanta be friends w/ you first so they know you.. and if they want to spend more time w/ you they will then you ask her out to the movies.. or w/e , your parents are just teasing you trying to make you get a g/f..

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bobblu #
An Unknown Location | 12 months ago (16 minutes after post)

synders your dad just dont want her preg. i’d say the same to my daughet if i ever have one, i’ll watch em like a hawk. lol
and hes being sarcastic..! lol :P

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An Unknown Location | 12 months ago (22 minutes after post)

Don’t worry about your parents. Thats what they do. Whether she likes you or not isn’t the issue. You have to man up and realize that if you don’t take the risk then you will regret it. She may say no, but is a lesson that you need to learn.

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Anonymous #
12 months ago (23 minutes after post)

get to know her, your shyness will be a comfort for her. because she will be nervous too probably… so being shy can work for you. start by being her friend… and tell her that you like her. take it slow. i am sure everyone will be happy if you are just honest and open about everything.

Anonymous #
12 months ago (2 hours, 5 minutes after post)

bobblu wrote:
first part is you cant just hook up w/ a girl girls wanta be friends w/ you first so they know you.. and if they want to spend more time w/ you they will then you ask her out to the movies.. or w/e , your parents are just teasing you trying to make you get a g/f..

im already fairly good friends w/ her so thats not a problem, the problem is that im a sophmore and she’s a junior and i cant drive yet, but she can, so i would just kinda feel wierd asking her to go somewhere and then saying can u pick me up? if u know what i mean

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An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (1 week, 3 days after post)

EY man stop being a ***** and make a move, i know it can be hard to make moves but its whatever you only live once, so if she refuses then its whatever (more fish in the sea) but if she digs ya then thats wassup. Yo parents is makin jokes to know if your gay or not gay. ask her outt beeezzy

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An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (1 week, 3 days after post)

if you really think your parents might have a problem with you having a girlfriend, then speak to them plainly.

ask the girl out, you can plan for dates that are in your area that are sweet, jsut the two of you having a good time and getting closer. if you want to go somewhere else, just be simple when asking for a ride. you’re the one paying for the dinner and the movie right? :) joke about it, don’t be embarassed.

on my first date with my boyfriend i had a car and he didn’t. it really didn’t matter because we really just enjoyed each other on the short car ride and the rest of the date we’re doing other things that really has nothing to do with who’s driving the car. just be casual, polite, and sweet. you’ll be fine.

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An Unknown Location | 11 months, 1 week ago (3 weeks, 5 days after post)

Follow your heart.. but i’m not saying ignore what your parents tell you. your parents know best. talk to the girl.. text her, or call her. see how she acts. invite her over to watch a movie or take her to dinner. or just go out with a bunch of friends. see where it takes you!! but don’t do anything crazyyy

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