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I really want to get in touch with my high school sweetheart and let him know what a great person he was.

We spent five years as a couple and lately i have been wondering how his life turned out. I have not spoken to him for ten years. Is this a bad idea?

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undeveloped offline Verified User (2 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (8 minutes after post)

its bad if he is in a relationship. dont do it if hes with someone. if both of you are single, then go for it. it could depend on how you broke up as well

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¡ʎuɐɟɟıʇ offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (45 minutes after post)

I’d just try and look him up on Myspace/Facebook and see if you can find out any info first before actually talking to him. If you see he is in a relationship, I wouldn’t do it.

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Miss Minnie offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (1 hour, 50 minutes after post)

Go for it!
Just be friendly at first and go for coffee or something, for an over due catch up.
It doesn’t matter if he’s not single because you’ll both have probs grown up things will be different. Just make it clear you’re not contacting him to make moves on him. :)

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everhart offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (2 days, 2 hours after post)

go for it doll i marred my hs sweetheart and that was 30 years ago sept 5 2008 good luck and happy holidays

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snowboarding_girl offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Minneapolis, MN, US | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (5 days, 3 hours after post)

No- its a good idea

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