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so latley i’ve been really sad.I have missed a lot of school becuase of health prpblems and now even though im feeling better im so far behind on shcoolwork im having to be taught at home until i catch up.I live in the countryside so the only time i get to see my friends is at school so i feel lonely.I have little self confidence and i feel under severe pressure to catch up quikly and i dont think i can do it.Eventually the school want to send transportation to take me to school for only the afternoons but im all for going to school fully and catching up in spare time,i dont want people to think im wierd because the majoraty of people who get help and transportaion are mentally disabled people,which again knocks my self confidence.

over the last 4 months or so me and my twin(she is in the same situation) went through this phase of dying our hair almost weekly and chopping it off.I look back now and i don’t understand what i was trying to achieve.Ater dying it and chopping i bleached it and it started to fall out so now it’s real short.becuase im on steroids for my asthma i have some stretch marks on my inner arms and thighs so i worry that when im older no-one will accept me and i’ll be alone.

because of my asthma problems my family have had to give up our animals and thats hard for us as we love animals and i feel that has caused them to resent me slightly.

thats just some background but theres more.
I have cut myself at least 5 times this year and i done the worst i’ve ever done a week ago,one of my arms is covered in cuts and its read and there are some scabs.my aim was to kill myslef but im an idiot and didn’t realize the razor wasn’t sharp enogh to do it,when i realized it wasn’t gonna kill me i got angry and started cutting all over my arms so as u can imagine there a bit of a mess.

So the problem is that in a few days i have a hospital appointment where they will likely take bloods and my pulse so im screwed because im not sure how im sopposed t cover them.if my parents find out they’ll just be angry at me and i know they won’t understand.

i’m not gonna cut again as it only has made my problems worse and added to the stress.
although that’s what i told myself the other times aswell.

i dont know what anyone will make of this im not even sure what i need help in.everything really.
thanks

all i want is too be normal and to attend school see my friends and have a life.

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bookworm16 offline Verified User (2 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (3 minutes after post)

It’s good that you see that hurting yourself is not the way to solve your problems, and it is good you’re trying to stop before you get too attached.

My best suggestions for covering the cuts … foundation. If you have to show your arm and you can’t wear long sleeves than foundation is probably the best way.

I know how you feel … kind of, so if you ever want to talk, feel free to post on here or message me. Good luck!

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seas light offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (15 minutes after post)

That is good advice bookworm. If they still show through and they ask what happened, maybe you could say you were in an accident and feel through a glass window that wasn’t properly installed yet. Like in a new home being built. Don’t know other then saying a car accident maybe also. Please don’t cut anymore. Glad to see that you stopped. Never go back to that behavior under any circumstance. Good luck :)

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jayp offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (52 minutes after post)

do you have a cat? or pet? you could say it scrached you

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Karoline.ponc offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (52 minutes after post)

Well I would yes..use foundation and powder. Yes..have a story ready in case of any questioning,and then make sure that your parents are not in the room with you. You have a right to privacy in the doctors office. Maybe tell your parents that you have some embarrassing questions or something that way they don’t get offended or suspicious. You should prolly have some embarrassing questions lined up and then perhaps look up the answers so if you get pressured into telling the parentals why you had them out of the room you can spit a few out..with the answer you “received from the doc.”
cutting:
Please don’t do that anymore, it really just makes you feel worst in the end..plus if your worried about stretch marks being embarrassing, then think about cut scars…
which I would recommend putting some scar cream on those right away. Or when they have healed they have scar cream patches that you can stick on there to work all day..
Heath Issues:
what are your health problems stemming from? Is asthma the main problem or the icing on the cake?
School:
the school wants to chauffeur you there and back huh? Let them!!
If people wanna talk crap…F em all anyways! ok?
And i know you have probably heard this a million times but high school…seems like your world right now because it is, but remember..once its over your in a whole new world and all those people who were rude or mean or just plain old (email removed) are going to be so minuscule that you can hopefully at that point in time, just chuckle a bit at their ignorance and stupidity before effortlessly tossing them from your mind and moving on to whatever really is important in your life…

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11 months, 2 weeks ago (2 hours, 32 minutes after post)

Ive been in a similar situtation ive cut myself before i thoiught that it helped my problems but as you know it didnt.So what if people dont except it right away your not alone in this problem people will come around soon eneough. And you have your sister to confide in. As for your school problem keep tryin ive been there just try and thats all you can do.Dont push your self though not so much anyways.Then if you do youll have more problems.

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