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anyone ever feel like you always say the wrong thing?

i always feel like i have to prove myself to people and most of the time i am so nervous that i say dumb things and make silly mistakes. i feel embarrassed all the time. it’s horrible.

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madfinnlove offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (3 minutes after post)

yeah. i have that problem, too. :\

i just try to stay calm and take my time and the words come out nicer that way. it just takes time so be patient. :]

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angel♥ offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 36 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (13 minutes after post)

YES! ahhhhhh i hate it!

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DoubleGin19 offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 88 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (14 minutes after post)

so you say dumb and stupid things! i do that all time in person and even on here……..as long as you show confidence behind what you say, people can think whatever they like……..

but where does your embarrassment come from?

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RuleCandela offline Verified User (3 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (14 minutes after post)

i have that problem to it always messes things up for me grrrr!!!!!

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XA9 offline Verified User (2 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (41 minutes after post)

Don’t feel bad dude we’re all on the same boat including myself.

Its best to not say anything so you won’t blurt out something you regret..just take it easy, breath, and think twice before saying anything I’m sure people aren’t going to tell you to answer right away haha

As of now you’re in the stage of progressing despite the embarrassment

these things takes time to adjust so hang in there buddy and I can only hope the best for you :]

-XA9

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