im going through the same thing girl, kinda!?
u just need to wait lol i know its easier said than done but there is no other option ughh
like wait until the right moment and then like this idea will pop into your head and then BAM! ull know what to do
uhhh.
but im like, dying of wanting to know.
and i can’t just flat out be like, hey, do you like me?
cause, yeah. i just couldn’t.
the only was is to wait?
>:[
i know im dying for him to finally call me tonight and discuss it because i was about to go to his house and smack his lil head against the pavement, lol
like i guess just tell him but in a cunning way like, like what i did was make it obvious he is frustrating me that i dont know whats going on idk if tht applies for you but it worked because i finally got his a** to respond to me in some coherent form of speaking!
wow.. we’re like, in exactly the same situation.
and he has like this ancient phone, and like only 10 contacts, and they’re just his parents and like no friends. and he doesn’t have txting. and he has my number, but he never uses his phone, so it is seriously pissing me off.
i just want to slap him across the face and be like, “DAMMIT! I LIKE YOU!”
uhh.
and i highly doubt i’ll have an amazing idea, i’m not doubting that i’ll have an idea, but it wont be amazing.
lol im sure ull figure something out these things always present themselves, hes driving me crazy like i wanna just kill him but i guess i cant, there are laws against that ugh, but if he does in fact say no to me or you just know that he obviously wasnt good enough for you and tht you will recieve a better one later on
but.. hes so hot.
and so nice.
and not perverted!
im sure you realize how hard it is to find a guy that’s not constantly wanting to see you naked.
and plus, my bestfriend likes him too.
speaking of my bestfriend, would you like to give me some advice about a little problem i’m having with her?
>_
yah sure let me have it, lol it will keep me from deciding to kill him lmao
LOL. seriously, i’m like ready to slaughter him.
anyways
so my bestfriends ex-boyfriend from like, two years ago (she never stopped liking him, and she hasn’t had a boyfriend since) she sent him this picture that i took of her, that makes her look like supperdooper pretty, because i photoshopped it, i mean, shes not very… pretty, and so he called her sexy, and she was all OMG OMG HE CALLED ME SEXY!
and so i had to tell her what he really says about her, which is that shes a fat b*tch and a desperate w*ore
and i said that i cant let her get hurt by him again because not only does it hurt her, but it hurts me.
and so like 10 minutes later she send me a txt message back and is like, “im turning off my phone. i’ll see you at school.”
umm..
did i say something wrong?
cause i thought what i said was good..
i mean, she needed to know, right?
i dont think you said anything wrong she needed to know before she obsessed about him for another year because of one text message where he called her sexy, its good tht you told her just reassure her thats hes an a**h*ol* and that he is so not worth it and not good enough for her, and if he’s a real jerk i would mess with his head some how!
she texted tht to you because im sure she is hurt by what he said and wanted to be alone, i do that, it also calls for attention, she probably turned her fone on 5 minutes later
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11 months, 3 weeks ago (56 minutes after post)
ummm maybe you shouldnt have said it that way, that seems way too harsh. You couldve toned it down a little. Plus you saying “i cant let her get hurt by him again because not only does it hurt her, but it hurts me.” makes it seem that you’re only thinking of yourself. you shouldnt have said “it hurts me” because in reality it isn’t about you. it’s about her. yeahh if i was her i would be hurt.
okay, she has been obbsessing about this guy for SO long now. heres exactly what i said:
no ashley, do you REALLY know what he says about you? like recently? i dont want to sound mean, but you need to hear it. and he didnt just say it to me, he calls you not only a “fat b*tch” but also a “desperate w*ore” and i cant stand for you to get hurt again. because not only does it hurt you, but it hurts me..
i’ve told her countless times that i know it’s hard, but we’lll get through this, and you have to get over him, cause he will just keep disapointing you.
so should i txt her back? and be like i know your hurting, but you needed to hear that.
or should i say something else?
or just not say anything at all?
i would text her back and say something funny like “did you fall into the toilet again, i told you to stop sniffing that lysol”
:D
okay, i will.
cause like, when i sent her a message after she said she was turning off her phone, it said that it was sent and that she received it.
so obviously her phone wasn’t off..
right?
okay
she said:
i dont really feel like talking right now.
i just wanna be alone
what do i say?!
ahh, i said your not mad at me, are you?
and she just said, “i’m mad at myself and him and i am having some problems and i want to deal with it
ALONE.
i will see you on monday.”
what am i supposed tosay to that?!
okay, well, i talked to her, and were fine.
but now tyler (her ex) is pissed at me, and will probably be an a*shole to me on monday. great.
flashbacks to gradeschool..
*shutter*
hes such an a*s.
your soul already knows who your soulmate is.
umm..
okay..
what exactly does that feel like?
i mean, what does it feel like when your soul recognizes your soulmate or whatever?
well if anything, just be patient.
you have your entire high school life to get someone :)
and if you wanted to ask, just dont get your friend to ask for you (guys think that’s weird *what my guyfriends tell me)
maybe..start by giving him a candy cane for christmas..or a candy bar or something
good luck
I know what u mean like because I was once in your shoes! n it wernt pretty coz the guy I had a masssive crush on broke my heart in so many wayz u could think of! n I still love him even 2 this day! Its not lyk u can switch ur feelingz off wen u want. sooo ya know my only advice 2 u is make sure u know he iz tha one 1st, and also get to know him well and his personality more. N stop droppin hintz coz boyz cant read our mindz ya know so u have 2 either tell him wen the tyms right. Because even if he knows, he wont tell you as hes a boy-Boyz dont show their feelingz like girls. Hope this made sence and its helped you….x
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You should wait for a few more days. Be his good friend. Someone he can trust is not talking about him when he is not there. If you like him, you should respect him and try to earn his respect as well. Only then he will start liking you/show that he likes you. Be caring. Be loving and show him that u actually mean it when u ask him how he has been. Go Slow and you will start to find more about him…that will decide whether u actually like him 10 months later as well. If yes, go and tell him u feel for him.
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