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Its just so hard.

I started talking to an amazing guy over the internet, he has everything I want in a guy, Hes funny, smart, outgoing, and tru. Although, he is in a relationship he chose to still talk to me. I met him in person last night and I had the most amazing 3 hours w/ him just talking. Even though I just met him and we can only be friends, I miss him a lot already. Im feeling down and alone and I dont know what to do.

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XA9 offline Verified User (2 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (16 minutes after post)

Wait…

Do you miss him as a friend? or more than a friend?

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RuleCandela offline Verified User (3 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (54 minutes after post)

y can you only be friends with him?

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An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (58 minutes after post)

Nonono, the guy she mentioned is in a relationship.

The only thing I can suggest is back off ..unless you want to be viewed as a homewrecker.

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An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (2 hours, 20 minutes after post)

I think if you want to keep things in a good light, it’s best just to stay friends and not bring your feelings involved. It’ll be hard, but like tiffany mentioned, if you cross that line, it could turn ugly, and you’ll lose the respect of a lot of people.

We can’t help who we have feelings for, but we can choose how to deal with them.

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