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So I went to a party last night and this guy and I exchanged phone numbers.

And I kind of want to send him a text or something because I think he is super cute. But I don’t really know the guy at all. I just know his name and that’s about it.

I kind of figure I could send him a text and if he doesn’t respond I can be all whatever because we go to the same school, but I never see him around campus like ever. So it wouldn’t be super awkward. That and the semester is about over anyway.

But I just don’t know what to send him that’s not just weird or anything. And I’m kind of wondering if he even remembers asking for my number because alcohol was involved in the party and I don’t know how much he had drank so …maybe I shouldn’t?

What do yall think? Maybe wait another day or so? Don’t send a text?

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DoubleGin19 offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 88 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (3 minutes after post)

hell no!

just send him a text saying you think hes cute and that you want to meet up……
dont bother with any of this waiting 3 day crap…..

like you say if he doesnt reply no harm done.
but dont come out with i wont to be friends or anything. just say some cheeky like……

hey cutey, last night was great. do you fancy meeting up over the weekend?

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DoubleGin19 offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 88 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (4 minutes after post)

oops i meant…….want to be friends lol

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11 months, 3 weeks ago (7 minutes after post)

Yeah, I’m not so much on waiting days. But I didn’t want to seem weird or whatever.
I don’t know how guys think. Lol.

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An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (10 minutes after post)

you wont seem weird as long as you dont use the words love………or i really like you………

after one night, especially at a party, you can never really like someone. only want to shag them!!!

also dont say i the word friends………because a guy really doesnt want to hear that from a girl hes just met. because to a guy it means that friends is all you will be!

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Anonymous #
11 months, 3 weeks ago (13 minutes after post)

yeah. i stay away from the word love.
i was just going to say something random which is why i was like maybe that’s weird.
i was going to just be like, “new phone number. :)”
didn’t know how that would go. but i probably shouldn’t worry intensely, i guess.
i get super nervous when it comes to guys and talking to them hmm.

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I want out offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (17 minutes after post)

Just send it, some guys are shy some are not!
Go for it, if he bites Yay if not nothing lost!

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Anonymous #
11 months, 3 weeks ago (18 minutes after post)

mmk. :)

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DoubleGin19 offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 88 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (18 minutes after post)

well i wouldnt say that lol new phone number lol
thats even worse than hey, want to be friends lol

just say something that will get a response, and will show him you want to see him again
like what i said lol

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Anonymous #
11 months, 3 weeks ago (19 minutes after post)

haha. Oh.
okay.

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DoubleGin19 offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 88 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (21 minutes after post)

if you like you can copy that word for word lol
but it only took me about 30 seconds to think that up :P

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Anonymous #
11 months, 3 weeks ago (22 minutes after post)

haha. would’ve taken me a year.

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An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (25 minutes after post)

really lol……you went to a party, danced and got drunk (im guessing you had a few)……..and yet you cant think of a text message hehe

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An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (25 minutes after post)

If he asked for your number then he likes you and wants to hear from you, trust me.

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Anonymous #
11 months, 3 weeks ago (28 minutes after post)

DoubleGin19 wrote:
really lol……you went to a party, danced and got drunk (im guessing you had a few)……..and yet you cant think of a text message hehe

yeah. i can’t think of anything because i am now sober. and when i’m sober i’m super shy. drunk, i flirt like crazy. ha.

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An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (31 minutes after post)

see thats why guys like me, go after girls like you lol…….

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Anonymous #
11 months, 3 weeks ago (31 minutes after post)

maxbrockman wrote:
If he asked for your number then he likes you and wants to hear from you, trust me.

Mmk. :)

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Anonymous #
11 months, 3 weeks ago (32 minutes after post)

DoubleGin19 wrote:
see thats why guys like me, go after girls like you lol…….

ha. Ooh.

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An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (34 minutes after post)

send it u have nothing to lose!

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An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (34 minutes after post)

yeh. one term is emotionally unstable……….and the other is perverted lol………
but hey, thats why girls go to parties and clubs. to have a good time :P lol

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Anonymous #
11 months, 3 weeks ago (36 minutes after post)

DoubleGin19 wrote:
yeh. one term is emotionally unstable……….and the other is perverted lol………but hey, thats why girls go to parties and clubs. to have a good time :P lol

pretty much.
have fun. flirt. meet cuties.
get free beer. ;) ha.

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An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (43 minutes after post)

get free beer? time out butch lol……………im sorry but when a girl starts on beer, its time to call it quits……….your on wine, vodka or some crap like a wkd or bacardi breezer……(however you spell it lol)

sorry but that is how it has to be…….lol

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Anonymous #
11 months, 3 weeks ago (47 minutes after post)

haha. ah. i was drinking goldschlager the whole night. i ran out. all the guys had beer. ha. what’s a girl to do.

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An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (52 minutes after post)

goldschlager is that vodka with the gold sparkles in it……correct lol

and truly what is a girl, who has been drinking all night to do with ones self lol

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¡ʎuɐɟɟıʇ offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (53 minutes after post)

Send a text. :)
Seriously, what is the worst that could happen?

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