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acousticlove0
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I’m a little annoyed with the world lately (this is kind of a rant).

I go to a school that is middle and high school, but I’m not going here for High school. A lot of my friends are, so I’m sad I won’t have another 4 years of seeing them daily. On the other hand, the public high school I will be attending I know a LOT of people going to whom I went to elementary school/camp/etc with. The only thing about my friendships with these people is that I didn’t think I’d ever go to school with them, so I cut off my relationships with most of them. Now I am trying to reconnect so that when the 09-10 school year comes around, I will feel more included. This has been unsuccessful. I feel very alone.
When I’m at school with my friends, I am alone as well. I’ve never really completely ‘belonged’ with one group of people, I have friends in all different ‘cliques’, but now more than ever I feel stranded. I know I’m a loner, it’s painfully obvious, but I do have friends that love me and care about me. I just…don’t feel like they understand me at all sometimes.
I have two friends that DO really understand me, all the time, but they’re continuing at my school. I am nervous about high school to begin with (I’m still afraid of seniors!!) but this on top of everything freaks me out.
And of course I have math and mandarin finals to study for, things to do, people to listen to….
I’m just so confused and mad at life currently.

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Commander Ikari online Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 129 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (8 minutes after post)

In high school, you make new friends beyond your middle school ones. You have people who you know who will be attending the highschool with you, so only a little work and being with them all throughout the school day, and you’ll be friends, or at least friendly acquaintances. High School isn’t bad, the seniors won’t try and kill you or anything. As for not being understood besides your two friends, have you tried opening up to the other ones as you have with those two?

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An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (15 minutes after post)

You need to give yourself time to adjust. It is natural to be nervous about going to a new school and starting the new year, but you will adjust eventually. Don’t worry about things that have not even started yet. You are going to be just fine. As far as friends or acquaintances, you will make new and more friends.

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An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (40 minutes after post)

Yeah, pretty much. All you need is to just let things seep in, you’ll get use to it, it’s always difficult in the beginning. Just enjoy being with your friends when you see them.

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An Unknown Location | 6 months, 2 weeks ago (5 months after post)

what does school make you feel so bad well i have to put up with my anyoest person in the world my sister

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