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Beardyman~~~

I’ve been feeling really depressed lately.

I’ve been doing an online school for like, 2 months this year, and I have F’s in 4 of my classes, 1 of which is an elective. But that’s not all. my gf broke up with me because I didn’t know how to kiss her, even when we were alone, for some reason, I couldn’t. so yea, trust me, there’s a lot more that’s almost inpossible to explain. I’m just really depressed lately, and I need some people to tell me it’s gonna be alright, because my parents won’t, and none of my friends know I’m depressed…….so yea……..just any words of wisdom, helpful thoughts, whatever……as long as you’re not making fun of me, cause I really can’t handle that right now. so just…….anything…….plz? thanks

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I’ve been feeling really depressed lately. I’ve been doing an online school for like, 2 months this year, and I have F’s in 4 of my classes, 1 of which is an elective. But that’s not all. my gf broke up with me because I didn’t know how to kiss her, even when we were alone, for some reason, I couldn’t. so yea, I’m just really depressed lately, and I need some people to tell me it’s gonna be alright, because my parents won’t, and none of my friends know I’m depressed…….so yea……..just any words of wisdom, helpful thoughts, whatever……as long as you’re not making fun of me, cause I really can’t handle that right now. so just…….anything…….plz? thanks

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angel♥ 36 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (8 minutes after post)

what?! i just posted something and it didnt show up…..weird.

but anyways. i do distance ed too. last year i did online but i didnt like it so im just doing normal now. i found it to hard. maybe you should try paper based and see if that makes a difference?

as for your gf.. that kind of a weird reason to break up with you.. :S

but things do get tough.. but you can get through it all. its just a rough patch but itll eventually pass

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Beardyman~~~ 73 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (10 minutes after post)

yea, but it’s not that easy wit school. my parents signed me up for this because this is what THEY wanted me to do. and actually a better way to describe her breaking up with me was because she was depressed because of me, so she broke up with me so that she wouldn’t be depressed. but thanks for the post.

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angel♥ 36 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (12 minutes after post)

oh…. so you dont have a say in whether you do it or not?? :S

oh okay… im sorry! that sucks.

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Beardyman~~~ 73 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (18 minutes after post)

angel♥ wrote:
oh…. so you dont have a say in whether you do it or not?? :S

oh okay… im sorry! that sucks.

yea, I don’t really have a say at all lol but thanks……and don’t worry too much about it lol I know there are people that are having much worse problems and everything, so I probably shouldn’t be complaining, but I just kinda need to get it off my chest I guess…….mostly the reason I made this post was because I was so depressed that I sat on the floor in the bathroom for 3 hours today lol

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Neutra 19 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (29 minutes after post)

just do the best you can

Beardyman~~~ 73 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (34 minutes after post)

I’m tryin. kinda hard though.

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angel♥ 36 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (34 minutes after post)

meh. i hate when people say “you shouldnt complain. people are way worse off than you” but that just makes you feel selfish. everyone has their problems and all of them are hard to deal with..

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Beardyman~~~ 73 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (35 minutes after post)

yea, I know, but it doesn’t stop me from feeling like that lol

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angel♥ 36 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (35 minutes after post)

yeah i know. but try not to. it doesnt make things any easier lol

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Beardyman~~~ 73 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (38 minutes after post)

yea, I know lol

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Neutra 19 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (38 minutes after post)

pianoman91894 wrote:
I’m tryin. kinda hard though.

dosen’t have to be perfect, just do what you can

Beardyman~~~ 73 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (39 minutes after post)

yea, I know it doesn’t have to be perfect, but it really sucks right now. like, i’m waaaaay deep in the hole. I’ve been having thoughts of suicide since I was 8

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seas light 6 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (47 minutes after post)

It might be quite helpful, for you to confide in someone you trust. It is too hard to keep things bottled up. You need some good sound advice from someone who will have your best interests at heart. Just being in a recent break up sure doesn’t help matters either. People who suffer from depression, aren’t alone. Millions suffer from this disorder. Your family DR. would be the best to advice you on your best options here. There are also many support groups with others as yourself, that could give you pointers on dealing with all your stres. Why continue to suffer, when , just by reaching out, you can soon be back to feeling more like yourself. All the best to you :)

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angel♥ 36 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (49 minutes after post)

wow. 8 is pretty young for that.
how old are you now?

also what is causing the suicidal thoughts?

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Beardyman~~~ 73 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (1 hour, 3 minutes after post)

I’m 14 now, but I really don’t know what’s causing them. at the time it was just that my mind didn’t know what to think of things that were happening in the world. I didn’t even know what suicide was back then, I just knew about people killing themselves, so yea, it’s weird. the only reason I get them now is because they really don’t go away.

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seas light 6 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (1 hour, 9 minutes after post)

Those thoughts are all the more reason you need to reach out for help. They probably won’t go away on their own without it. Talk to your mom about how your feeling.She is your best friend :)

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Beardyman~~~ 73 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (12 hours, 41 minutes after post)

seas light wrote:
Those thoughts are all the more reason you need to reach out for help. They probably won’t go away on their own without it. Talk to your mom about how your feeling.She is your best friend :)

it’s not that easy. she doesn’t understand how I feel. she thinks that when I’m sitting in the bathroom floor for 3 hours after an argument I’m “pouting.” and that’s only 1 of the things.

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