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My best friend is a backstabber.

I have a huge crush on one of my best friend guys, and i reall didn’t want too many people to know. I stayed over at her house for a sleepover with two other people. One of which knew who i liked, and the other i can’t trust. I had to leave early, but 5 minutes before the girl i didn’t trust whispered “what class is he in” in my best friend’s ear. They didn’t think i could hear them, but i could. And my friend told her! Yesterday (a week after sleepover), the guy i liked found out it was him because the girl i didn’t trust and some of her other friends confronted him about it. My best friend denys saying anything, but how else could the untrusting one have found out? my other friend that knew at the sleepover left before me!! What should i do now?

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jade_packe offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 8 months, 2 weeks ago (3 months after post)

You should tell her that you heard them and you know that she said it. If you can’t trust her then you really can’t be her friend, or you could but not tell her your secrets. That is so mean of your best friend to do and you need to tell how you feel about it.

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