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angel♥ offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 13 #
An Unknown Location | 12 months ago (0 minutes after post)

me!

because im useless and cant do anything right

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Dr. Wilson offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 12 months ago (1 minute after post)

I’m sure your not useless, but what makes you feel that way?

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¡ʎuɐɟɟıʇ offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 12 months ago (2 minutes after post)

I don’t hate myself.. But I do strongly dislike myself at times.

I can’t get a job. I still live with my parents. My love life has been ****. Need I go on? :/

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angel♥ offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 13 #
An Unknown Location | 12 months ago (2 minutes after post)

not really sure… just feel like i cant do anything right sometimes. i just make things more complicated than they already are

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An Undisclosed Location | 12 months ago (2 minutes after post)

I used to… Now I love myself because I’m amazing and awesome. And humble too ;).

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Bogdan (Gone) offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 12 months ago (3 minutes after post)

I hate myself so much. I cant believe I get the chance to live. Whatever I do, no matter how hard I try, everyone gets hurt. Once my duty is done, I get to die in peace. Yay! :D

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angel♥ offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 13 #
An Unknown Location | 12 months ago (3 minutes after post)

Bogdan wrote:
I hate myself so much. I cant believe I get the chance to live. Whatever I do, no matter how hard I try, everyone gets hurt. Once my duty is done, I get to die in peace. Yay! :D

you sound like me!!! D:

YOU ARE AWESOME THOUGH! just thought id say that lol

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ĐaNi HaŦeS ŸoŪ offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Help.com Volunteer Moderator Long Term User Shouts: 202 #
An Unknown Location | 12 months ago (6 minutes after post)

I don’t hate myself but i’m struggeling on the toilet right now i hate that

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Bogdan (Gone) offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 12 months ago (6 minutes after post)

angel♥ wrote:

Bogdan wrote:
I hate myself so much. I cant believe I get the chance to live. Whatever I do, no matter how hard I try, everyone gets hurt. Once my duty is done, I get to die in peace. Yay! :D
you sound like me!!! D:YOU ARE AWESOME THOUGH! just thought id say that lol

Everyone is awesome in their own right. I have just convinced you I am awesome enough for you to not hate me. I still want to be erased, people would be happier. I am too depressing when you get to know me.

Besides, you are more awesome. I am something that was dragged in by the cat.

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Dr. Wilson offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 12 months ago (6 minutes after post)

Tiff- I don’t think the job thing is your fault. It’s tough out there now, I know. I live at home too. I just graduated in 08 though so not too bad. Whats wrong with your love life?

angel- I can understand that. How long have you felt like that?

Dr. Cuddy- good for you. Oh, and thanks for saving my job along with Wilsons today.

Bogdan- You can’t do everything. You WILL fail and thats ok. I know me saying that doesn’t really mean much but its worth a shot.

Dani- Amen. hows my kid doing? hehe

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ĐaNi HaŦeS ŸoŪ offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Help.com Volunteer Moderator Long Term User Shouts: 202 #
An Unknown Location | 12 months ago (7 minutes after post)

dr.house is playing psychologist hahaha

he….it is doing fine soon it will be almost a year old december 23!!!

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Smiles81 offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 12 months ago (7 minutes after post)

I hate myself for being weak, for being never good enough, for not being normal, for being to level headed, and beng a hypocrt sometimes. anyways its always easier to see you own flaws. Other than that i just try to improve myself. =/

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Dr. Wilson offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 12 months ago (9 minutes after post)

That old dani? time flies.

Smiles- atleast your trying

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Smiles81 offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 12 months ago (9 minutes after post)

Lol thats my logic =)

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Forman offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 12 months ago (9 minutes after post)

I belong here

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angel♥ offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 13 #
An Unknown Location | 12 months ago (10 minutes after post)

ummm im not sure..a few years at least.

bogdan- no. i refuse to believe that. youre my idol. =) haha

i however am not awesome at all.

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Forman offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 12 months ago (10 minutes after post)

I belong

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Dr. Wilson offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 12 months ago (11 minutes after post)

Forman(I think it’s Foreman actually but anywho)- no you don’t.

angel- Think it might be some form of depression?

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Smiles81 offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 12 months ago (12 minutes after post)

Oh i just forgot to say i hate that i do whats right but get wronged, i know its not my fault, but it still feels like it.

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Dr. Wilson offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 12 months ago (13 minutes after post)

Yea. I hear ya on that one Smiles. It’s funny when people bring up karma

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¡ʎuɐɟɟıʇ offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 12 months ago (14 minutes after post)

Dr. House wrote:
Tiff- I don’t think the job thing is your fault. It’s tough out there now, I know. I live at home too. I just graduated in 08 though so not too bad. Whats wrong with your love life?

Well, I graduated in ‘07, so I feel like I’m sort of a failure in a sense. There for awhile, I quit my job because of personal reasons and wasn’t looking for a job .. but now that I am, I can’t find one. It’s been almost a year and I’m getting very impatient and frustrated.

The love life thing? Just sorta sucks because I was in a long relationship with a lot of dishonesty on his part. Wasn’t a good ending either.
I’m not necessarly ‘looking for love’ at this point, but I don’t feel like I’m going to ever be happy/comfortable/in love again. :/

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Forman offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 12 months ago (15 minutes after post)

yeah…that name was taken though…enough with the black jokes already

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An Unknown Location | 12 months ago (15 minutes after post)

at times i do hate myself for loosing my gf to some guy she met on an online video game.

i started to hate myself because i was mean that i would always critize her on every thing she did and the guy she was talking to was being very considerate and would be very sweet and nice to her.

we dated for about 4 years

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Bogdan (Gone) offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 12 months ago (17 minutes after post)

angel♥ wrote:
ummm im not sure..a few years at least.bogdan- no. i refuse to believe that. youre my idol. =) hahai however am not awesome at all.

Dont turn this into an argument, I am really smart and junk. Your refusal of belief of your idol is an paradoxic thing, you realise this dont you. I am sick of being put on a pedestal. Makes my failure seem so much greater.

I now say, beyond any chance to refute, you are awesome. I will start a poll if I have to, to prove I am right.

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Bogdan- You can’t do everything. You WILL fail and thats ok. I know me saying that doesn’t really mean much but its worth a shot.

I cannot stand failure in myself. I hate it and when it enters me, I hate myself more. Failure in anyone and anything else is fine, just not me. I have to be 120% and for every point I fail by, that shall be but one part of my punishment.

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Darth Pianoman~~~ offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 152 #
An Unknown Location | 12 months ago (17 minutes after post)

I’, starting to hate myself. it’s mostly just because of all the stuff that’s going on in my life right now. too many things to say, that’s why.

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Dr. Wilson offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 12 months ago (19 minutes after post)

You looking for part time or full time? I *want* full time but will take part time. I don’t do food though so I probably could get a job doing that, but it wouldn’t end well. Sorry to hear about your relationship ending. Maybe you won’t be happy. But you always have the chase(the pursuit of happiness)

forman…gtfo :)

lock- there is a saying. something about learning more from mistakes than being right all the time. maybe someone here will know it.

Bogdan- Good luck. I know words can’t help.

Pianoman- fair enough.

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Bogdan (Gone) offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 12 months ago (20 minutes after post)

Sorry, I am more or less impossible to help. I resist, deflect, change topic,etc., even when I dont want to.

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¡ʎuɐɟɟıʇ offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 12 months ago (21 minutes after post)

Definitely looking for full time, however I would take part time too. Most of the jobs here invole food as well, and I’ve already been a waitress - never again on that. It was so horrible.

What is Forman doing wrong? :(

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Dr. Wilson offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 12 months ago (21 minutes after post)

Bogdan- Trust me, we all been there. or atleast I have hehe

Tiff- I can’t stand food. hopefully working for UPS soon
he is doing everything wrong. as usual

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Forman offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 12 months ago (29 minutes after post)

Lumbar puncture time

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Bogdan (Gone) offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 12 months ago (32 minutes after post)

Dr. House wrote:
Bogdan- Trust me, we all been there. or atleast I have hehe

Does it get better? Easier?

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Forman offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 12 months ago (33 minutes after post)

Your scared to let anyone near you…..Your scared they’ll leave you in the end…That’s no way to live House

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Dr. Wilson offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 12 months ago (34 minutes after post)

Forman, go mess with chase.

Bogdan, no. atleast not for me. Not to say it won’t for you.

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An Undisclosed Location | 12 months ago (54 minutes after post)

I do too. I’m not sure why I’m here anymore can’t seem to get out.

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Dr. Wilson offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 12 months ago (55 minutes after post)

Good luck. I do suggest anyone who is suicidal who comes to this post seek a doctor though. but hey, the choice is yours.

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Michael Leibman offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
Littleton, CO, US | 12 months ago (1 hour after post)

I don’t exactly hate myself, but sometimes I’m a little inconsiderate of my feelings, like I’ll tell a joke about me that isn’t meant to be rude, but it still smarts, then I get annoyed and start going behind my back, gossiping with strangers about all my little failings that get on my nerves. I know I should just sit down and have a long talk with myself and come to a better undeerstanding, but every time I’m in the mood for that talk, I’m no where around, I can’t find myself. So, yes a little bit I hate myself. Why can’t I just all get along?

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Dr. Wilson offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 12 months ago (1 hour, 1 minute after post)

I’d answer, but it seems you will answer yourself here soon anyway hehe

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angel♥ offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 13 #
An Unknown Location | 12 months ago (1 hour, 9 minutes after post)

Dr House- yeah i do have clinical depression so its probably part of that.

bogdan- im sorry! but you are freakin awesome! lol ill stop putting you on a pedestal though! or ill try.. hehe

nooooooooooooooooo i am not awesome. you think im awesome only cause i try and hide my sucky/dumb/annoying side on Help :P

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Bogdan (Gone) offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 12 months ago (1 hour, 10 minutes after post)

angel♥ wrote:
Dr House- yeah i do have clinical depression so its probably part of that. bogdan- im sorry! but you are freakin awesome! lol ill stop putting you on a pedestal though! or ill try.. hehenooooooooooooooooo i am not awesome. you think im awesome only cause i try and hide my sucky/dumb/annoying side on Help :P

You dont hide it, you are just so awesome it goes unnoticed.

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Dr. Wilson offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 12 months ago (1 hour, 11 minutes after post)

I hope you find a way to manage it then angel

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angel♥ offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 13 #
An Unknown Location | 12 months ago (1 hour, 12 minutes after post)

Bogdan wrote:

angel♥ wrote:
Dr House- yeah i do have clinical depression so its probably part of that. bogdan- im sorry! but you are freakin awesome! lol ill stop putting you on a pedestal though! or ill try.. hehenooooooooooooooooo i am not awesome. you think im awesome only cause i try and hide my sucky/dumb/annoying side on Help :P
You dont hide it, you are just so awesome it goes unnoticed.

nope. im the opposite of aweosme (what IS the opposite of awesome?)
i mess everything up, hurt the people i love, make situations more ocmplicated than they already are ETC ETC ETC. that does not equal awesome. but thanks lol

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I hope you find a way to manage it then angel

thanks =)

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Dr. Wilson offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 12 months ago (1 hour, 12 minutes after post)

:D

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Bogdan (Gone) offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 12 months ago (1 hour, 15 minutes after post)

angel♥ wrote:

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angel♥ wrote:
Dr House- yeah i do have clinical depression so its probably part of that. bogdan- im sorry! but you are freakin awesome! lol ill stop putting you on a pedestal though! or ill try.. hehenooooooooooooooooo i am not awesome. you think im awesome only cause i try and hide my sucky/dumb/annoying side on Help :P
You dont hide it, you are just so awesome it goes unnoticed.
nope. im the opposite of aweosme (what IS the opposite of awesome?) i mess everything up, hurt the people i love, make situations more ocmplicated than they already are ETC ETC ETC. that does not equal awesome. but thanks lol

You have to accept it. I am a childlike genius. Ask Nisa how many times I lose. She will tell you.

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angel♥ offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 13 #
An Unknown Location | 12 months ago (1 hour, 16 minutes after post)

Bogdan wrote:

angel♥ wrote:
Bogdan wrote:
angel♥ wrote:
Dr House- yeah i do have clinical depression so its probably part of that. bogdan- im sorry! but you are freakin awesome! lol ill stop putting you on a pedestal though! or ill try.. hehenooooooooooooooooo i am not awesome. you think im awesome only cause i try and hide my sucky/dumb/annoying side on Help :P
You dont hide it, you are just so awesome it goes unnoticed.
nope. im the opposite of aweosme (what IS the opposite of awesome?) i mess everything up, hurt the people i love, make situations more ocmplicated than they already are ETC ETC ETC. that does not equal awesome. but thanks lol
You have to accept it. I am a childlike genius. Ask Nisa how many times I lose. She will tell you.

lmao lose at what?

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Bogdan (Gone) offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 12 months ago (1 hour, 16 minutes after post)

Lose at arguments.

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An Unknown Location | 12 months ago (1 hour, 31 minutes after post)

i am badly in need of 80,000$ can anyone help me

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Dr. Wilson offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 12 months ago (1 hour, 32 minutes after post)

no. make your own post. shoo

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11 months, 3 weeks ago (1 week, 4 days after post)

I bet the rich people, beautiful people, fortunate, or talented people don’t hate themselves! I WISH I COULD KILL THEM!!!

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An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (1 week, 4 days after post)

I wouldn’t be so sure. Many blessings are also curses.

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11 months, 3 weeks ago (1 week, 5 days after post)

Dr. House wrote:
I wouldn’t be so sure. Many blessings are also curses.

I really find that hard to believe!

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An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (1 week, 5 days after post)

Some people hate that they have things others don’t.

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11 months, 3 weeks ago (1 week, 5 days after post)

Dr. House wrote:
Some people hate that they have things others don’t.

thats absurd!!! I don’t get it!

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An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (1 week, 5 days after post)

Sometimes I feel like a bother, just a waste of time and space. Thats when i hate myself the most when I feel like if I just disapeared no one would even notice…not good feelings at all really.

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An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (1 week, 5 days after post)

And I don’t expect you to anon.

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11 months, 3 weeks ago (1 week, 5 days after post)

Dr. House wrote:
And I don’t expect you to anon.

wait so your saying that rich people want other people to be rich!?

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An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (1 week, 5 days after post)

Sometimes. Some people feel like its bad to be “rich” or have something others don’t because there are many people out there in much worse conditions.

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11 months, 3 weeks ago (1 week, 5 days after post)

oh okay i get it now! ….but i still hate myself. :)

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An Unknown Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (2 weeks after post)

I hate some things that have happened over my life however I don’t hate myself. I beleive we can only do what we know to do at the time we make a choice, if some choice did not work out and we could have known it was not going to work out then I’m guessing we would not have made that choice. And if we knew the choice would carry the consequence it did and we did not view that consequence as a good thing then in fact that was the outcome we wanted to have happen because we knew this would be the outcome.

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