Love help: I dont know if i love my girlfriend - Help.com

it happens its probably a phase but best way to handle this is talk to her about how you feel or go on a break but dont see other people like have a break for at least a week and you will start to miss her and realize that you either love her or you dont

Only you can answer that question for yourself either you love her or you don’t. Don’t waste your time and her time if you don’t love her. Think of the feeling you get around her, are you only attracted to her physically or do you always want to be near her weather she looks good or bad. It’s the simple things liek that to know you love her.

You are more than likely over this problem but if you ver come accross it again you will realise thart its not only your girlfriend that you feel like you dun love, but most things, i’m goin through this atm nd the things that just helped me wer me gf nd my mate. No reply possible btw

I’ve been going out with my gf for 10 months, and the last couple of weeks I’ve been feeling diffrent, I can’t explain it. It’s not the same feeling that I used to have. But I still really love her. And yesterday I asked for a break and explained myself but she’s breaking down, and tellin me end it because she doesn’t wanna have todeal with the pain for any longer. And she’s just in this huge state of depression and I don’t wanna c her sad! And I want to be with her and feel the way we used to, but I can’t! I rly dint know what to do. Plz help

ive been with my g/f for 4.5yrs. we fight alot. she loves me but dosnt know that she is in love with me. she knows im attractive but cant get that feeling of attractive for me. weird. cant be with someone who thinks like that. what a waste of almost 5 years. its sad when im ready to work on things and always have but its a 2 person team. cant be 1 sided.

right now, I am feeling EXACTLY what you’re feeling. at first i was not sure about what to do, because i was uncertain of my feelings and i didnt want to hurt her by asking for a break. but as i sat and thought about it, i realized that in a relationship, you need to understand each other, care for each other, respect each other and above everything, have FEELINGS for each other. if you have tried for a few weeks/month to let that feeling thrust back but it hasnt, talk to her, ask say that you need a break to figure out what is going on with you and your feelings. if she actually likes you a lot or loves you, as bad as it may be for her, she will try understand you, as her greatest will will be for you to be back together as you are. take a couple of weeks off the relationship, but dont go around hooking up with other girls. let it sink in that you dont have her anymore and see how it will affect you. after that, go and talk to her about what you realized, be it good or bad. even though you have your whole life beyond you to find a perfect love, things shouldnt be forced. let it be and go with the flow.