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school relationship help!

i know this girl in my school. we barely talk to eachother in the halls and have no classes together this year.
i started liking her last year where we had one class together. shes VERY smart a straight A student. We’ve been talking a lot over msn and texting. When we talk on msn we always talk for at least 5 hours and text a lot too. However im to shy to talk to her at school and never got a chance to see her alone without her friends. Last time i asked her to hangout with me she said mayb. Then i got my friend to ask her if shes going 3 days later and she says maybe not cause i dont know him that well… at that time i thought she was playing an act with me and playing around with me. These few days she never replied for my text and doesnt go on msn anymore. I think shes avoiding me or something and playing around with me. At school she seems very nice and all but my friend said that she thinks im wierd and all. Last time her friend even told my friend to stop being friends with me. All her friends think im wierd.

Do you people think shes playing with me or anything gimme some suggestions to help me get her or just or opinions!
Thank You.

PS: This happend 2 months ago.. but the not reply back texting just happend recently..
And my friend is really tight with me and too simple minded to take the girl for himself. He’s really honest

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i know this girl in my school. we barely talk to eachother in the halls and have no classes together this year.
i started liking her last year where we had one class together. shes VERY smart a straight A student. We’ve been talking a lot over msn and texting. When we talk on msn we always talk for at least 5 hours and text a lot too. However im to shy to talk to her at school and never got a chance to see her alone without her friends. Last time i asked her to hangout with me she said mayb. Then i got my friend to ask her if shes going 3 days later and she says maybe not cause i dont know him that well… at that time i thought she was playing an act with me and playing around with me. These few days she never replied for my text and doesnt go on msn anymore. I think shes avoiding me or something and playing around with me. At school she seems very nice and all but my friend said that she thinks im wierd and all. Last time her friend even told my friend to stop being friends with me. All her friends think im wierd.

Do you people think shes playing with me or anything gimme some suggestions to help me get her or just or opinions!
Thank You.

PS: This happend 2 months ago.. but the not reply back texting just happend recently..
And my friend is really tight with me and too simple minded to take the girl for himself. He’s really honest

Matt... offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 12 #
Baltimore, MD, US | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (7 minutes after post)

I doubt she’s leading you on or playing with you like that, otherwise that would be pretty mean.

Girls are hard to read. Some girls are just talkative and like the attention of boys, but are not interested in anything romantic. Others talk to you a lot as a sign then are interested in you and like you. It’s difficult to tell.

But don’t let what her friends think of you hold you back. If you like her, ask her out. Worse thing that can happen is she says no.

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lipton_lipton offline Verified User (11 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (12 minutes after post)

she is very shy and non talkive.. she is only talktive to her friends and stuff soo then yah.

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An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (22 minutes after post)

girls like confident guys. go for it, i mean i know rejection is scary…but girls like knowing a guy likes them, and they don’t like it when he’s too shy to make the first move because they aren’t going to do it.

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lipton_lipton offline Verified User (11 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (30 minutes after post)

i had bad experiences in the past..
where i told the girl i liked them and they’re like WTFF..
and think differently of me.. so im scared to do that anymore

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kinipela3 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (46 minutes after post)

well then maybe don’t ask her “will you go out with me?” but maybe ask if she’d like to go to a movie next weekend or maybe hang out just the two of you sometime. even if at first you just hang out as kind of flirty friends…then you can get to know her better and see if she might feel the same way about you.

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An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (47 minutes after post)

i just think if you don’t do anything you might regret it. and thats the worse.

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Ashlee offline Verified User (2 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months ago (3 weeks, 2 days after post)

sounds to me that if she’s avoiding you, she doesnt like you back. hold off talking to her for a week or so, and then slowly work up your friendship with her

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joemon offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 6 months, 2 weeks ago (5 months, 1 week after post)

i have had this problem many times before 5 times in fact so be careful dude but you cant be any worse than me

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