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I just found out my friend cuts…

and i dont really know what to tell her…

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Karma Amelia offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 21 Add Friend #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 4 weeks ago (17 minutes after post)

Don’t try to boss her about. But show her you feel its a bad thing. You could tell her that next time she feels like cutting, to give you a call and try to talk it out with you?

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An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 4 weeks ago (1 hour, 6 minutes after post)

Try to support her by listening what she has to say. But you can also ask the assistance of an adult. Sometimes there are things we cannot handle by ourselves.

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RuleCandela offline Verified User (3 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 Add Friend #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 4 weeks ago (1 hour, 14 minutes after post)

u should talk with her and tell her that it is not healthy behavior and if she agrees go talk to an adult like lilies said because they can help alot and 2 heads are better than one, just be there for her

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Katlyn offline Verified User (12 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 Add Friend #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 4 weeks ago (4 hours, 7 minutes after post)

Tell her that you dont think its the best way to go about her problems but also tell her that your going to be there for her no matter what happens. If she needs to talk to someone your there.

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An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 4 weeks ago (4 hours, 54 minutes after post)

number one) dont freak out in front of her
number two) Listen to her
number three) encourage her to talk to someone like a counsellor or an adult she trusts
number four) try to be there for her as much as possible and make sure she knows shes special

I hope everything turns out for the best, good luck xox

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