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Wingsofdeadlov wrote:
well well well…as long as you made these conclusions yourself, I don’t see a problem here. Losing your arrogance was sort of sad though, thats what makes a lot of us free thinkers.

Arrogance might not be the word for you then. Fear of being wrong? Thinking I’m better than I am? Accepting that some others have insight and wisdom, not just about facts, but about the very framework of existence?

I am very much a free thinker. I am awesome in many ways, but now I no longer find myself feeling insecure when I realise that so are most people. Feeling comfortable with myself as a path, not a position, and allowing myself to be and flow with other ideas with out losing myself? I am usually very clear and precise with my writing, but this is not the case on this post.

Hmm, it like the calculation for the movement of the planets became much simpler when they set the sun as the centre and not earth. Simple now, but it was almost impossible for people to loose the arrogant stance of centre of the universe. Same with “origin of the species”. I’ve just taken another step in free thinking and seen myself more as I really am. Most things in life worth doing like happiness and love can’t be attacked head on, but just given the space and chance to grow.

Michael Leibman wrote:
That’s really very inspirational.

really?

sounded more like a nonsense rant when I re-read it. I felt something I can’t understand fully yet. If I read this about someone else, I’d be thinking they were having a religious experience and just say something nice and move on… oh, well ok then :-)

Wingsofdeadlov wrote:
I guess I was stating out of the misconception that maybe you had lost all your arrogance. It’s nice to see you have some of it still *wink* pretty easy to get to it too :) haha.Btw, it was good in a bad good bad good, mostly, well good sort of way.

LOL, thanks. It’s weird, but I think it’s some bumb brain process that after you get dumped, you have to somehow prove you are better than them, to win somehow? Well, I loved a woman way too wise and wonderful for that ever working out. Oh, now I can really start to enjoy the upside…

chunkymove wrote:

Michael Leibman wrote:
That’s really very inspirational.

really?

sounded more like a nonsense rant when I re-read it. I felt something I can’t understand fully yet. If I read this about someone else, I’d be thinking they were having a religious experience and just say something nice and move on… oh, well ok then :-)