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…. my girlfriends having a hard time…………….. her moms moving out and taking her with her to get away from her dad becuse hes a alcoholic
she feels like shes got noone to help her
it pains me to see her upset
what can i do?

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An Unknown Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (2 minutes after post)

Be there for her, always

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An Unknown Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (8 minutes after post)

I agree, the best thing is for you to let her know you will stay by her side.

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An Unknown Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (39 minutes after post)

i do but ………….she really gets upset about it………….. im never gonna stop being there for her but shes only 14 ………….she dont deserve all this at her age

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An Unknown Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (45 minutes after post)

how old are you?

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An Unknown Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (49 minutes after post)

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An Unknown Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (51 minutes after post)

oh okay. well still just let her know you care. Don’t let her try to push you away. She needs you right now. your doing the best thing for her

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An Unknown Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (53 minutes after post)

but …………….i only see her once every 2 weeks

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An Unknown Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (57 minutes after post)

Talking on the phone can be just as helpful

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An Unknown Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (1 hour, 7 minutes after post)

msn, googletalk, aim are useful too

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An Unknown Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (1 hour, 9 minutes after post)

yeah we talk on msn but it wont help her tbh

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An Unknown Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (1 hour, 10 minutes after post)

Is there anyway you could see her more often? Drinving for visits or meeting her at places?

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An Unknown Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (1 hour, 17 minutes after post)

im 16 ..i gotta catch a train and a tram……….costs me £20

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An Unknown Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (1 hour, 29 minutes after post)

£20 is nothing dude

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An Unknown Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (1 hour, 39 minutes after post)

it s where i live
but i dont work

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An Unknown Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (1 hour, 43 minutes after post)

you can always ask your parents for some money to visit her…

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An Unknown Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (1 hour, 54 minutes after post)

i already do………….. they give me all the cash they can………….. but i just wanna know how to help my gf tbh

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An Unknown Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (1 hour, 58 minutes after post)

By being there for her, by visiting her, by telling her she’s not alone, bit talking to her, by comforting her…the same you’d do with anyone you care about…

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An Unknown Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (8 hours, 38 minutes after post)

i dont care about anyone else tbh
shees my everything
i do all those tghings
its not helping tho :(

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An Unknown Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (8 hours, 41 minutes after post)

well, she needs to get better by herself too…

that’s why all you can do is to keep by her side, and let her know you’re there for every moment she needs you…

it’s up to her =P

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An Unknown Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (8 hours, 43 minutes after post)

yeah but if anything happen to her…………. i would rather die tbh

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An Unknown Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (8 hours, 48 minutes after post)

and why would she die?

is she getting into the suicide thing?

again, it’s something she’s to deal with, and the only thing you can do is to tell her how much you love her and need her…

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An Unknown Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (8 hours, 50 minutes after post)

yeah but ……………..its getting to much………….shes to young to handle all this

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An Unknown Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (8 hours, 52 minutes after post)

more reason for you to be there for her =P

again, if you rly want to help her, get her to go to some professional help…

someone with who she can talk with, and doesn’t have any ties with her…i mean that isn’t involved with her in anyway…

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An Unknown Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (8 hours, 53 minutes after post)

……..yeah but…………. nvm………….it dont matter…………. i will sort it myself………..dw ^^………..thx anyway ^^

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An Unknown Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (8 hours, 57 minutes after post)

no prob…

and believe me, she isn’t THAT young…

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