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I’m one of three daughters.

I’m the youngest and I’m 15. My older sisters both got amazing grades at GCSE, A-Level and University, they are so clever I mean for example one of them goes to Oxford. Both are beautiful and have done there fair share of modelling. I get great grades in school but I feel so pressured.
All my teachers want the best from me, I can’t explain the despression I feel, I feel like the 3rd best daughter. My parents favour my other two sisters for a fact and they make no secret of it.
I can’t tell my friends, they don’t understand - noone understands how upset I feel, I cry myself to asleep I don’t think I can handle it much longer…

Help me?

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Wingsofdeadlov offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (2 minutes after post)

hmm…well I’d start by saying be whatever, and I mean WHATEVER YOU WANT TO BE! Second, talk to your parents, explain the way you feel??

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An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (28 minutes after post)

Ok i really hate saying this because it’s so ambiguous but be yourself, ignore what your sisters have done and just do YOUR best not thiers. as wings said talk to your parents about how you feel they could help you, or if you’d prefer not to talk with them talk to someone you trust or a counsellor most schools have a counsellor and they can be a great help. good luck x

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An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (4 hours, 15 minutes after post)

Haven’t you heard of a black Sheep in the family? That means you are special. Special to do Things others cant do.All you have to find out is what you are good at.That may take a while but you are the best and now one can get near you.Find what it is .I’m good at writing my style of music.barbyman.com

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An Unknown Location | 10 months, 4 weeks ago (3 weeks, 4 days after post)

Avoid comparing yourself to others standards. Set your own standards you want to live by and aim for your personal goals. Comparing yourself to others will only do 1 of two things. Make you feel inferior or make you feel superior. Neither are something you want, so compare yourself with your future self. Think of what you want to do or be, and then figure out what is different than you right now and you later. Find what needs to be done and then do it!

Confusing? Probably, but I hope it helps xD

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