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what is love? what dose this 4 letter word mean apart from hurt, pain and a sence of being alone. how dose one find love and keep love. if there is a soul mate for every one i have gave up my search. I will not stand in the cold no more waiting. feeling as if i’m walking in the face of WIND its self trying to reach what i dont know! done dreaming. so i ask what is this LOVE?

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9584 offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months ago (6 minutes after post)

Love is taking chances, it’s jumping and hoping someone will catch you. it’s the one thing that everyone will say they’ve given up on but secretly they never will. Love is being in a bubble and letting that one person have the ability to burst it but trusting them not to. never give up on love because that means your giving up the one thing that means your alive.

~May the lobster of loveliness swim with you through the sea of life~

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kam4life offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months ago (7 minutes after post)

The ability too share everything you have including your own soul with that person bcoz u want them too be happy bcoz u love them hope that was an ok reply best of luck withn your search.

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Katlyn offline Verified User (11 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months ago (8 minutes after post)

Love is all those things and more. Its a very complecated thing/feeling as well. I dont know what it is either ive thought about it alot and still dont know for sure. I really dont think anyone dose for sure. But what i do know is that its everything you said it is but its a great thing and when one finds it try not to let go.

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kam4life offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months ago (9 minutes after post)

u hit the nail on the head pookie that really took the words out of my mouth:)

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garethjw offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months ago (18 minutes after post)

pookie words where strong but katlyn are stronger. “when one finds it try not to let go”. some one once said it is better to loved and lost then never to loved attail. excuse the language but what a load of s**t. its what left after you have lost this love emptyness……
pookie i like that saying too tho. ~May the lobster of loveliness swim with you through the sea of life~

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Spangle offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months ago (2 days, 17 hours after post)

Well in my opinion there are different types of love. There is the love you give your family and friends… then there is the love from your lover/partner/bf/gf etc. and then there is love you give to other forms of life such as animals and the earth. Possibly that was from strongest to weakest love. Anyway we are all social animals (yes hard to accept us as animals but in a round about way we are) and we need to socialise and integrate with one another. If we don’t integrate we get lonely, when we are lonely we long for love and affection… without it we would be unhappy. We are designed to feel love… experience love and love one another… confusion, hurt feelings and lack of trust and communication can get in the way of love, bad feelings can harbour meaning it is difficult to learn to love other people, however with correct attitude, patience, communication and trust we can regain a new love with somebody after losing somebody else… however some religious beliefs don’t permit this. If somebody has died for example and one was married, they might not marry or meet another again through choice - like my nana, who never went with another man for over 30 years due to her Christian beliefs.

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Your_Guardian_Angel offline Verified User (11 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 10 months ago (1 month after post)

If only we knew!

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