Love help: i am a man 25 years of age i lived a hard life in and out of god and hurt by many people that were supposed to love me. - Help.com

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i am a man 25 years of age i lived a hard life in and out of god and hurt by many people that were supposed to love me.

my dad left me and my mom and germeny my sister and i where put in foster care homes my mom and stepdad got me out and we moved to america then they had my brother my stepdad beat me and my mom became an acholic (spelling?) we moved every year till 1995 there i ment my dad in az for week and then he left again not wanting anything to do with me . i left home at 16 i was kicked out for yelling at my mom about her drinking i had to drop out of school to get a job and a apt they dont let you go to school and get rent help so i started down the wrong path i married a women and had 2 kids with her she hit me alot and was cin need of mentel help well we got divorcied and lost my girls till she got the kids taken from cps i was with a girl and going to marry again for the right resons . we did our best to show cps that i was a good dad and her a good mom so we after a year of that i got full rights to my girls andmy new wife and i had a son well now we are in hard hard times i have job but it does not pay well im going to loss my car and can not pay bills i pay rent and heat is $1000 i tryed the quixtar thing but im thinking is a scam i got suckerd in due to being broke i fell god hates me i try so hard to make it in life i just dont know what to do any more i need help im lost i need gods love i cant even give good gifts for our famliys first christmas i dont know what do can anyone help me im a a good actor and musican i can work hard just let me know

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Wingsofdeadlov offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 4 weeks ago (14 minutes after post)

wow….well lemme tell you something man. Money isn’t everything. Do the best you can, my wishes are to you and I’ll pray for you bro. The best I can do for you, but dont lose faith and let your children and wife know you love them and just work as hard as you can to get a job and they will gain more out of the respect and dignity you have shown as a man, father, and husband than you would with all the money in the world. Times are hard for a lot of people right now….

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strings_r_on_fire offline Verified User (11 months, 4 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 4 weeks ago (41 minutes after post)

thank you i hava job it just dont pay near what i need but thank you reading

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smallr offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 4 weeks ago (3 hours, 59 minutes after post)

I wish I could help you finanualy, but like wings of deadlove said it’s hard for everyone. What I can do is give you words of encouragment.I also had a very hard life i’m 47 any my husband is a double amputee.I know I have to stay strong for my husband and kids. Sometimes life doesn’t seam fare but I strongly believe our hardships will make us stronger. God puts us through test of faith all the time that is why we are here for him. You must love yourself and when other people do you wrong it is not because of you it’s who and what THEY are. So don’t let the actions of others change you. As long as you are kind and loving this pleases god and in turn you will start to feel good about who you are.What really matters is you give of yourslf and don’t expect anything in return this makes a godloveing person.There is so much bad and ugly out there we can not allow this to change who we are.Sorry I sometimes ramble on.Well 47 years of knowledge keeps pouring out.So inconclusion of all of this, Every morning when you get up tell yourself I’m a good person and I WILL NOT allow others to influence my good careactor.I will love myself because GOD loves you and will test your faith with hardship from time to time.
From someone who does care:)

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pjm0984 offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 4 weeks ago (11 hours, 58 minutes after post)

sometimes we fail to see the bigger picture, I’ve been in a similar situation I left home when i was 15 after my father died, I had trouble with rent being due and working two jobs at 16, that was 8 years ago and my life just got better last year, I got a decent job because even the worst jobs that pay the worst and put you in financial situations end up paying off in the future, if you cant find a better job right now that doesn’t mean you wont tomorrow, if you believed in God then believe in him always, don’t stop when times get rough, He’s helping in some way, life is of hard times that will make you stronger tomorrow for getting through today.

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sasuke.rule offline Verified User (12 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months ago (3 weeks, 5 days after post)

if i was older and out of school ( 8th grade) i would for cerial help u out i mean cause me friends parents are going through a hard time but they always love each other and always let each other know how much they care for each other and this does probably sound stupid but my aunt has a kid ( my cousin) name tyler and one day she came to his school picked him up and left for 2months no one knew where she was and she was living with my moms brothers wife and her kid they got kicked out so they went and were sitting on the street until the salvation army found them and took them in and let them into a motel and i for sure thought that they werent going to have a good christmas but the salvation army gave them the best christmas a homless kid and his mom could have (i sound like a commercial) but yeah so just believe in god and thank him for the money u have and thank him for ur family…

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