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I love him.

I adored him to pieces then the past few days… I have begn to feel less or actually not feeling less i just feel VERY blocked off and separated..I am snapping at him all the time, hes being hurt by it. How do I stop snapping at him? How do i know our love is enough and that we’re just at a comfortable spot in our relationship because its been 5 months? We have stopped smoking a day ago, thats probably fueling this fire. Everyday for 5 months has been really nice and I have never felt so loved and supported. And now I feel insecure, afraid, and blocked off suddently… help?

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Cannonball Girl offline Verified User (2 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
Susanville, CA, US | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (3 minutes after post)

if you JUST stopped smoking that is deffinately causing a lot of it. just sit down and have a talk, acknowledge whats going on, discuss it. Apologize. but make sure you both know whats going on. the horrible thing that happens in a lot of relationships is a lack of communication.

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princesa_8990 offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (32 minutes after post)

yes, communication is key. and to stop smoking is hard, let alone the first few days. you have to expect turmoil especially now, but dont let it hurt your relationship. the best thing to do is talk about it with one another, not only deterring potential problems but chances are it will make you guys stronger. good luck

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newbie offline Verified User (11 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (11 hours, 58 minutes after post)

dont let something that stupid be ur downfall. u love him? then show it and relax :)

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