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We don’t know what to do…

Me and bf who’s really more of a best friend live in a REALLY small town that doesn’t have ANYTHING to do.
And we like to party but he can in this town and I can’t because everyone knows me, and my older siblings would probably be in the same room as me if I did.
So I’m stuck alone while he goes out.
He really likes to be with me but he hates being bored. So then I feel kindah bad cos I feel like I should be providing all of our entertainment and I know I can’t…
Does anyone know what we could do so that me and him don’t grow apart? Because I think we already have started to since he goes out all the time and I dont.. :(
Any ideas would be so helpful. Thankss

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mooseyymoo offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 10 months, 4 weeks ago (4 weeks after post)

what wrong with partying in the same town as your siblings?
also, how old are you?

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amberB offline Verified User (10 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 3 weeks ago (1 month after post)

Well, i think he doesn’t always have to party. I mean, if he knows you can’t or don’t want to do it then he should at least think of something for you two to do. Not just you. But… renting movies is always good, i personally, like to game out, and if you’re small town has some sort of diner you could go to that.
Oh and why don’t you go out when your siblings don’t or… what exactly is wrong with that? Is it drinking or something? Just because you go to parties doesn’t mean you have to drink, I do that sometimes too.

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