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you should tell her how you feel and try to help her………..

If she hasn’t started cutting again and doesn’t want to, that’s a good sign. Just be her friend, let her know you are there if she needs you.

But if you find she does start cutting again, then I suggest trying to get her to talk to someone.

that sounds a lot like my mate tom, but we get along well

oh just be their for her

If things get too much for either her or you, then talking to someone else may be the only option. It’s great that you’re there for her, but don’t forget to look after yourself too.

that’s good that ur gettin along great thats a good sign

I agree! The best thing you can do, is show her moral support, and if need be, Get her out in the fresh air for a bit.It will take her mind off things maybe, and really does rejuvenate for a time anyway. Perhaps she’ll open up during the walk, and then you can help her even more. This time of year seems to make a lot of people depressed for some reason. Good luck :)

i dunno what to say but just be supportive and just have a laugh and go cinema….etc and be friends like nuthin has happen but just help her in some way kl hope i am helping you in some way

If you can’t go out, then like unique said, just do what you’d normally do together. I’m sure that if she knows you’re there for her, if she feels she needs to talk about it she’ll talk to you.

bookworm16 is right about if she needs to talk she will talk to you because your best friends and you get along great.

you should tell someone about it and some people have this problem and sometimes getting help would work.

u should talk to her, if that is ur best friend she would be able to talk to u about amything, just tell he that by her cutting her wrise will not kill her it will only make her arm ugly..well this is what i would do if i was in ur place..i would go to her house and i would talk to her and if she doesnt want to talk about it then tell her that you’ll always be there for her and that if she ever needs anything just call u no matter how late in the night it is or how early in the morning it is ur there, i would try and fid out whats really bothering her first try and make her truse u so that she can open up to u..well i dont know waht else to tell u but i hope with what little i said it will help u tell ur friend that if she needs to talk to some one e-mail me and i can promise that ill help her through everything that shes goin through i> small>(email removed) /small> /i> tis is my e-mail address even u if u need anything just e-mail me too well i got to go take care and tell ur friend not to do anything stupied