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I am 17.

I have a one year old baby. My Boyfriend and I used to live in Az together. But money got realy tight so I moved to NC with my parents. Now things are better in Az but my Boyfriend cant make it out here for another 7 months. I am really depressed and I miss him a lot. But if I go back my parents will most likely never talk to me because Its like I just came here and used them and then left. what should I do? I am so torn

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¡ʎuɐɟɟıʇ offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (43 minutes after post)

Do you not have a job yourself?

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tyedyemepurpl offline Verified User (11 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (5 hours, 3 minutes after post)

Nope, I dont have anyone to watch my baby, and Child care is too much

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¡ʎuɐɟɟıʇ offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (5 hours, 22 minutes after post)

Your parents couldn’t watch the baby just until you got a job and could pay them back for helping out?

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thisis_min offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (2 days, 8 hours after post)

They should be willing to help you out they are your parents if life is better with your bf and he is babys dad than they shouldnt have an issue with you goin home

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aldisle offline Verified User (11 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (6 days, 22 hours after post)

Remember he’ll be with you in seven months. It’s not a good time to be starting out again - bills are worst in the winter. Tell your baby about its dad and why you miss him. Write to your boyfriend - you don’t have to send him everything you write! Do things with your baby and tell his dad about them - he’ll be missing you both too. And look forward to July - by this time next year, you’ll have forgotten all the heartache.

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webjeff200 offline Verified User (2 years) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Chicago, IL, US | 11 months, 1 week ago (1 week, 5 days after post)

I say talk to your parent before you do anything. Do you think you can hang in there for 7 months? If you go back will you be right back the same situation you left you the first place.

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