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I just got into another fight with my boyfriend I havent since we took a day break.

The break was so horrible I couldnt stop thinking about him and we finally told each other that we cant be without each other so we didnt fight for like a week. I have been sick all day so my voice is stupid and I dont feel like talking all happy and stuff and he keeps saying that I didnt miss him and I dont want to talk to him but I really do I told him that like ten times and he just doesnt want to believe me so I was like no not again we cant fight again and he was like, well your the one who doesnt miss me and doesnt want to talk to me so then we hung up all bad. Friday was awesome cuz we spent the whole day together and there was no fighting and we were really perfect. I wish everyday could be like that, what do I do to make him feel better, cuz everytime he says something like you dont want to talk to me and you dont miss me and then when we talk again I am happy, he thinks Im just acting that way because he said something so I dont know what to do I don’t want us to continue fighting like we used to so what do I do please help me

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meeeeeeeeeeeee offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (5 minutes after post)

basically and just stupid little things and he ends up taking it really seriously for no reason but then I try everything in my power to make it better but I didnt have to worry about it all last week but not all of a sudden it happened again idk what to do if I should still try to like say im sorry and stuff but idk if that would even work I mean I did kinda take my being sick out on him but I cant realy help that but I still am sorry for doing it I guess but idk what he’ll say to that

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seas light offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (34 minutes after post)

Well I agree, sounds like he is a little insecure or an attention hound. I don’t know. You said you were sick and didn’t feel up to talking. That to me should have been understood by him period. He may be immature too by the sounds of it. All you can do, is express your well intentions, to not want to fight with him, and re-asure him of your love for him. Other then that, it’s all up to him, on how he chooses to process it. I certainly wouldn’t make myself miserable, worrying about this. It takes two to fight and two to get along. It is not are job to convince someone who doesn’t believe are words to be truthful. That’s all up to him. Lets hope he realizes how sincere you,and mean what you say to him. Good luck! :)

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meeeeeeeeeeeee offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (2 hours, 56 minutes after post)

Ok well thankyou, Ill try to see what happens over time, Im just going to be how I was when we were happy together because Im feeling a little better now so I will talk to him about it. Once again thankyou :)

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thisis_min offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (2 days, 8 hours after post)

how old are you

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