Love help: I’m Melinda, have anyone ever done this? - Help.com

actually yeah, but my situation was a bit better being that he lived in a different country. I’m originally from Argentina and we always return there to go visit family and friends. One year one of my really close friend’s brother seemed to have matured dramatically and gotten a whole lot cuter as well. So it had been about 3-4 years since i had last seen him and we immediately got to flirting with each other, and it was weird at first because we always considered each other as cousins or siblings, but nonetheless i was crazy about him. Turns out nothing really happened and it was time for me to leave, so i returned to the U.S. and a few months later I found out he was coming to visit. I immediately went and sent him an email explaining my feelings about him and how i was so excited that he would be visiting. The real reason was so that he would come here knowing how i felt and make a move, turns out, he never responded to it, and i asked my friend, his sister, if she knew about it and she told me that he had decided not to respond for the best. It was awkward at first when i saw him again but we acted like it never happened, and he left. So i can actually avoid him because of the distance but for you idk what to say.

Oh my- so I guess it was best that I didn’t make the first move? I’m a stupid girl. I am sorry that you didn’t become a couple- stories like that are so sad!!! :( I’m sure you’ve gotten over it though- that was his loss I must say.

The pain in your stomache is doubt and fear…..rejection you say. You have entrused him with your emotions….be ready for all possibilities. I hopehe feels the same way. Take eah day as it comes. Dont get too upset about the outcome. What will be will be.

yeah i mean after the whole experience it wasn’t such a big deal, i mean don’t feel bad because it wouldn’t have worked out anyway, the long-distance relationship thing is not something i could handle. Do you see this guy often?

No,I do not see him often at all- and I suffer from Low low self esteem…the feeling of worthlessness is something I struggle with daily. I know this is unatractive and that people can see it. I don’t want to ignore him but I know that will be my first instinct when I see him.

then bring it up. just say… hey i don’t think what i have said earlier to you should cause awkward tension and i hope we can just disregard the whole thing because i don’t know what i was thinking

That happened to me with a burrito I thought I would like to eat. After I ate it, I was puking like crazy. Now when I go to the taco shop where I bought that burrito the girl behind the counter thinks I like her and she wants to give me more burritos for free. I don’t know what to do.

Has that happened to anyone here?

Haha I’m laughing littlenick :) Why does the girl think u like her?

Just because I walk by the taco shop on my way home from school! I just glance over there and she smiles at me and comes out from behind the counter with the same type of burrito that made me puke. I don’t know how to tell her that I don’t like the burrito or her. What do I do?

Hahahahaha………………..lmao!!! Just say that you rather order something else:)

Did she have a nice smile littlenick?

She has brains. Big brains. Her brains almost spill out of her blouse!

But she did have a nice smile also!

littlenick wrote:
She has brains. Big brains. Her brains almost spill out of her blouse!

I’m sorry about this idiotic response. It won’t happen again. I promise! Sorry. :(.

ive had that happen to me before (not the taco thing lol, sorry i shouldnt laugh at otheer peoples misfortune) but i had a girlfreind who dumped me because her parents didnt want her to have a boyfreind till she was 18… i was so angry i didnt speak to her at all and made fun of her. after she left to move back to london i thought it through and felt it was wrong to do that and now i feel guilty

Good luck. Sorry, that’s all I got.

What would you do if someone els would be doing this to you?