boyfriend help: my boyfriend hit me for the first time

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my boyfriend hit me for the first time

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An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (2 minutes after post)

Anonymous wrote:
No good can come from an abusive relationship.

Agreed

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An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (2 minutes after post)

If you stay with him it won’t be the last. Leave the bum and move on!

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An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (3 minutes after post)

Once you lose love and respect for your significant other the physical abuse begins! Please leave him now and don’t give him a second chance!

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An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (5 minutes after post)

Your post should have read, “My boyfriend hit me for the first and last time. Now he’s in jail, and he’ll probably be some guy’s girlfriend by sundown.”

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An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (5 minutes after post)

LEAVE HIM!

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An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (6 minutes after post)

you need to show him the door

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An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (8 minutes after post)

Leave him. He has anger problems that you cannot solve. He needs professional help.

RuleCandela edited this post 11 months, 3 weeks ago. Read the previous text »

my boyfriend hit me for the frist time

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An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (16 minutes after post)

See, you are very lucky that he is only your boyfriend. Because if you marry him, you will be at his mercy. Please do not put yourself in that situation. What everyone else says is right. If he has hit you already, he most definitely will continue. Especially if he gets away with it the first time. And it could get alot worse, too. Even if you don’t think so, it can.Believe me.
First thing, take care of yourself. Show him the door. Move on.
Difficult? Yes. But not as difficult as being strapped down and married to this guy and then having his kids, too. You would be stuck. And we surely don’t even want to think of the pain that all of that would cause you.
STOP IT!! By walking away while you can. Edie.

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An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (43 minutes after post)

THANK YOU VERY MUCH

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An Unknown Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (1 week, 1 day after post)

omg same thing happened to me today and i just walked away crying because i could not believe it. After 2 years, giving up so much for him because we were ‘in love’ and we were supposed to marry. But hitting someone , hitting me just showed me he did not have any love or respect for me. I know people can have anger problems but it was totally uncalled for. Anyway altho its hard when you love them to keep away when they call you up crying esp when they never do, they are abusive and mine was manipulative and i cant let him ruin my life any longer. I had the world at my feet and lost everything over him. Least i’ve learnt my lesson now and im still young and have the rest of my life ahead of me. I used to love myself but he made me feel bad about myself :(, and so i know you should never let anyone do that to you. The only mistake i make is being honest, nice, and loving and caring and people can take advantage. I am known as a strong independent girl, but this guy nearly ruined my life, imagine if i married him… good riddance. He has my home and parents numbers so unfortunately he will call those for a long time to come, so i guess the battle is ongoing but its your life, and only you can take care of yourself. So do that before its too late. I feel bad for all the abused women out there and hope you stay strong and seek help. You will be fine alone, because we are born alone and die alone and everything else is a blessing. Faith has always helped me through life, only the last few years were tough challenges and am sure there are more to come which only make us stronger. Best Wishes.:) xxxx

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An Unknown Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (1 week, 1 day after post)

It’s amazing how we “transfer” qualities and virtues to someone we love, and often those qualities and virtues really aren’t in the person we love.

I would guess that 30 - 40 percent of the population would not make good marriage partners, and around 5 - 10 percent are real stinkers, like your former boyfriend.

Change your home phone number and make it unlisted. Tell her your parents to tell him to not call again. You don’t have to put up with that. Legal action can be taken against him if he continues.

Sorry you went through such a hard time . . . but really glad you didn’t marry the jerk! ;-)

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