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what can i say to a girl im flirtin with that will lead into somethin more?

like, how can i say sometihn wihtout comin stragiht out and saying it? i wanna ask her if she’ll hook up with me, but i dont wanna be blunt. i wanna ease into it, but idk how. idk what to say.

we’ve known each other for a couple years. we are kinda close, but not too close.

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toulsonrichi offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Titchfield, K6, GB | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (4 minutes after post)

just be talking about something and then kiss her, then look at her, if she draws away say ’sorry I don’t know what came over me’ if she doesn’t then kiss her again.

It is a classic and if she likes you she will like it

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11 months, 2 weeks ago (7 minutes after post)

im talkn about online right now.

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toulsonrichi offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Titchfield, K6, GB | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (12 minutes after post)

well I would put something like: What are you up to tonight, anything good or would you like to go to the cinema? That sounds friendly and if she says no you can just put - ok im so bored i was just thinking of something to do. If she says yes you could go and try my first message!

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11 months, 2 weeks ago (21 minutes after post)

i was thinkin of somethin differnt. i wont get to see her for a week cuz shes on vacation right now

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toulsonrichi offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Titchfield, K6, GB | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (24 minutes after post)

ok just put - have a good holiday, I miss you. let her think about that for the rest of the holiday then when she gets back try what i had already mentioned.

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11 months, 2 weeks ago (25 minutes after post)

alright. thanks

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toulsonrichi offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Titchfield, K6, GB | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (26 minutes after post)

no probs

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An Unknown Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (50 minutes after post)

just start hanging out, if your looking for a fling then you do what you do, if your looking for a relationship then herees what i would do. wait till your hangin out one night, and look her in the eyes and say somethin cute and meaningful, tell her how things are better with her, and how specail she is, and how she makes u really happy and u want to spend your time making her feel the same way and a smile goes a long way. just rememeber whatever way u choose, be confident and give her a romantic kiss and keep smiling be happy when your with her, make her feel special

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littlenick offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 150 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (20 hours, 29 minutes after post)

Why don’t you just talk about mutual interests? Tell her what your favorite classes are and ask her what her favorite classes are. Tell her about your last report card and maybe tell her that you might want to try to improve on your grade (if your grades need improving).

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littlenick offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 150 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (20 hours, 36 minutes after post)

Sounds like being around her, you just get nervous and don’t know what to say. That is why when a subject of mutual interest comes up, you have to explore it. Ask her to the movies. Ask her to go for a walk in the park with you. Ask her to go the library if necessary to study together. Then in casual conversation mention or ask if she might see your friendship evolving into something more personal between you two. And by personal, you mean would she ever consider being your sweetheart or girlfriend. I know it’s corny advice but I think you get the idea and you will come up with a much better idea or way to hook up with this girl.

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An Unknown Location | 8 months, 4 weeks ago (2 months, 2 weeks after post)

i need help with a girl dat i like but i dnt know if
she likes me can you tell me how to flirt with her

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An Unknown Location | 2 months, 1 week ago (9 months, 1 week after post)

gently put your hand on her crotch. give her 20 dollars and ask her to go to the pool.

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