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how do u tell him ?

how do i tell someone who loves me so much that i need to be alone?
a couple of days ago i mentioned breaking up to him and he wouldnt stop crying , he wouldnt stop asking to give it another go and i didnt have the heart to be firm and lay it down that i have so much in my mind sorting out . and i cant do it dealing with love .
i just havent got the heart to tell him
and i havent got the gits to tell him ?
and i cant find the wright words without hurting him .

has anyone got any advise?

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An Unknown Location | 11 months ago (5 minutes after post)

you’ll hurt him if you tell him that, it doesn’t matter which way…

The thing is finding the way it hurts the less…

do you want to ask for some time to sort some things out, or directly break up?

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An Undisclosed Location | 11 months ago (14 minutes after post)

i need alot of time alone as is you read some of my last posts i have some problems with my past trumatic , and i need to sort it out along , i need to empty my head ,

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An Unknown Location | 11 months ago (19 minutes after post)

ok…

well, i guess he might understand if you need some time to sort things out…

is he kinda emotional?

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An Undisclosed Location | 11 months ago (21 minutes after post)

yes VERY !
and i hate it when people get emotional it makes me so sad

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An Unknown Location | 11 months ago (25 minutes after post)

well…

mmmm…

try approaching him when he’s calm, and in a quiet place where you two can talk without being interrupted…

I’d tell him that you need some time to sort things out in your head, because of all that has happened in your past…that it doesn’t mean you’ll leave him, or that you’ll break up, because you love him…but you need to do this, and this is the only way…

sounds good to you?

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An Undisclosed Location | 11 months ago (32 minutes after post)

yeah . thankyou .

i might try it tomorrow
ill keep you updated on how it goes

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An Unknown Location | 11 months ago (33 minutes after post)

make sure when you do that, specify that you need to sort things out sbout you, that have NOTHING to do with him-unless they do. Otherwise he will most likely assume he did something.

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An Unknown Location | 11 months ago (34 minutes after post)

no prob

question_mark? wrote:
make sure when you do that, specify that you need to sort things out sbout you, that have NOTHING to do with him-unless they do. Otherwise he will most likely assume he did something.

yep “?” is right

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An Unknown Location | 4 months, 3 weeks ago (6 months, 2 weeks after post)

> just let him know this website on purpose, i think he will understand a lot after he read it. I am not sure that’s helpful to you, that’s just my idea. Good luck…

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