Love help: Ok well i have this boyfriend, we love eachother but then he tells me that hes dropping out of school to get his ged. - Help.com

It is not the best choice he realy needs to stay in school , there really are not very many jobs out thier . but if he needs to leave shool then he better get his ged and not just quit stand by him

should i talk to him about his choice or let it go?

sit down and talk find out what he really wants to do with the rest of his life and have backs . that is plans to do somthing else if it does not work out

are you good with that

yeah thanx

You can ask him why. It’s stupid to drop out of school if there’s any way you can stay. And, I am sorry, but we were all teenagers once and teenagers do NOT think logically all the time, because the neural pathways are not fully formed until you are in your early 20s. My guess is that he’s unhappy with the situation at home.

The high school diploma is life’s first major “gate.” The feeling of society–and especially employers–is that if you cannot finish high school, you are pretty much a quitter and won’t ever amount to anything.

If you are in the USA, I can tell you that your boyfriend is already stacking the deck against himself job-wise. Not having a high school diploma becomes a “discriminator” used by employers. Yes, a G.E.D. is better than nothing–but it was really designed for people who really didn’t have the opportunity to finish high school.

I hope your boyfriend stays in school, but there isn’t much you can do except get him to talk about his “reasons” for dropping out. I hope that he reconsiders.

i do too thanx for the help =]

just think of this , honey you know i love u alot and i no that ur , ur own self and u can make ur own decisions but baby im worried bout ur future , what if u end up being those guys who regret , dropping out and then yeah , and ur finicial life isnt looking that ghud how are u guna move out ? [ add more details just tell him how u feel because ur his women . so yah ]

My boyfriend dropped out of school and got his g.e.d. If you really dont want him to do it then sit down and tell him exactly how you feel and that you just want him happy. and if he does go to get his g.e.d support him, he is going to need you. For me i supported my boyfriend and i have never seem him so proud of himself than he was when he got it. But if you really dont want him to do it…tell him how you feel. But if he doesnt anyway…dont take that as ” i dont care what you think” because thats not true…you opinion is probably the most important thats why if he does do it…you need to support him.