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Just keep talking and seeing her, over the summer do it as well, if she hasn’t gotten over her fear by then.

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Now, to the question at hand.

You have to show her that you can keep it going, or at least show her it is worth a shot. Keep seeing her on weekends, etc. Show that it will be the same. Assuming America, it is winter for you, so you have ages before it becomes a problem. Good luck.

yeah, don’t give up. Like Bogdan says show her it can work. You can’t convince her by asking you need to show her. Just go back to having fun with her again I am sure she’ll change her mind and give it another shot.

be her friend

Keep trying, Just be there for her and show her as a friend you wont ever leave and that yall can make it through out the summer it make take time but if you playing your role right it’ll work she’ll soon notice that you there for her and it’ll be better for yall to be in a relationship now i know this is kind of rude but after she realizes your there for her and you put that in her head really well have conversations with her make her laugh a little and then one day dont call dont write her on email or anything see if she gives you a call and be a little concerned that trick is so that you know if you got her where you want her to be then when she calls and asks you why you didnt call tell her you were thinking about how you want to be with her and yall arent getting anywhere really and thats not how you want it to be then see what she says I gurentee she’ll think on it harder then she ever has ! and maybe the outcome will be that yall are back at it! & you’ll have proof that you will always be there for her!

she doesnt love u no more . if she rlly did she wud . that wud be my excuse . “im afraid i`ll fall apart agen”:

dude she likes someonen else.
straightup anser yo.

in other words if u rlly wana get her then keep trying .

So she won’t get back together with you. Prove that you’re worth her time! Bring her some flowers or offer to help her with anything she needs. You could bring her a card on her birthday or cook her a meal when she’s feeling sick. She doesn’t want to get back into a relationship with you, probably because she’s afraid of gradual rejection again and wants your love, but wants her dignity more. And that is understandable.

well, she needs to be reassured.
she obviously loved/loves you, but shes just to scared to have you then have to leave you again.
it must have been hard enough for both of you the first time.
and maybe she feels that if a relationship can be broken once, then theres nothing stopping it breaking again.
but then, contradicting that, theres the saying:
‘ if you love something, set it free. if it comes back to you, it is yours. if it does not, then it was never meant to be.’

hope this has helped (: