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Does she like me?

So there is this girl at school (8th grade) and i want to know if she likes me. She used to never talk to me, but now, whenever she sees me she says hi. She sits next to me in class and talks to me a lot, but sometimes she doesn’t. She also talks to other guys. Do you think she likes me.

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Anonymous #
11 months, 3 weeks ago (1 minute after post)

Try Flirtin with her and see how she reacts….

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AstroHelper offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Dodgeville, WI, US | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (3 minutes after post)

The best thing to do is ask. You cant wait around until she asks u out. You’ll build a stronger bond if you just ask and if she does like you(Which the way it sounds she might) you can go out sometime.

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thegcriti offline Verified User (11 months, 4 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (29 minutes after post)

I having completed a study of infatuations in middle school, have concluding that there is no such thing as girls “liking” guys during this time of their life.

No. She does not like you. She’s in 8th grade: if she would say she likes you, it’d be meaningless.

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mcelappl offline Verified User (11 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (32 minutes after post)

If she only says hi, then shes just being friendly.

If she talks to you more…then who knows.

It depends what she talks about..me being a girl, i would text her. :)

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mar98 offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
Dracut, MA, US | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (2 hours, 40 minutes after post)

Given the limited information you gave us it’s hard to conclude if she likes you.

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Jet|ImNoLongerAstray offline Verified User (2 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (4 hours, 34 minutes after post)

thegcriti wrote:
I having completed a study of infatuations in middle school, have concluding that there is no such thing as girls “liking” guys during this time of their life.

No. She does not like you. She’s in 8th grade: if she would say she likes you, it’d be meaningless.

Hey sorry if I am comming off as insulting, but when I was in 6-8th grade, I liked plenty of guys. I also know that the people I liked, and love with all of my heart; it was real, not meaningless. A lot of us girls DO mean it when we say we like someone, what would be the point of telling someone you liked them if you didn’t?

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jthehumanbeing offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (6 days, 10 hours after post)

I totally agree with actually just talking to her and saying “hey, you’re cool, i’m cool, wanna hang out sometime?”
that way you have put your thoughts out there without putting TOO much emotion into it.
have fun. :D

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~*Confused*With*Love offline Verified User (2 years, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 1 week ago (1 week, 4 days after post)

I’m going to tellyou this right now: try being her friend for two weeks, then you can ask her out if she hints anything to you about it.

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sasuke.rule offline Verified User (11 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 4 weeks ago (3 weeks, 5 days after post)

you cant tell if a gurl likes u just from what you put really from me being a gurl i would talk to her like she talks to u smile at her alot and try hugging her and stuff but dont make the hugging and other physical contact make her feel uncomfertable soo yeah and dont ask her if she likes you thats the most rediculous thing to do to an 8th grader i swear i mean u cant ask her u have to make and take time to try and figure out more things about her talk to her frends about how she normally flirts with guys trust me it works better ok? hope i helped….

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An Unknown Location | 10 months, 3 weeks ago (4 weeks, 1 day after post)

Ask her if she wants to sack your mole and if she’s says yes your in

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roxygirl-101 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 3 weeks ago (5 months, 4 weeks after post)

k if shes anything like me she tell her best friend and tell her bestfriend to tell u

and to all guys people may tell u in stupid websites that u should touch then or make out with them all the time but yeah thats a total lie and if they play with there hair ask them out rite there

always touch them

stare in to there eyes

kiss them and hug them all the time

tell them at least 6 times a day u love them

and be kind of perverted i think its hot

and always stand up fer them if some 1 calls her a name or says something that will upset her

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Mrlover_14 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 1 week ago (6 months, 1 week after post)

O! My friend thist girls likes bu she fear to tell u that she likes u dont hasitate to tell ur love

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An Unknown Location | 5 months, 1 week ago (6 months, 1 week after post)

Tap that **** my *****

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An Unknown Location | 4 months, 1 week ago (7 months, 1 week after post)

I love haley but i dont think she likes me help plz she hangs around with other guys and she talks to me a flirts with me i dont no help me npt this 14 year old kid
im 13

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