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broke up with my partner a little over a week ago, been on the rocks for a month or so.. it was all pretty dramatic and not a time where i could say i had much dignity (i really wanted us to work through it). i still miss him alot.. he broke up with me at the worst time and im still struggling without someone there. he offered a support line a few days afterwards in a txt saying something along the lines of “if you want to talk to me, im still here” i angrily blew him off and embarassed myself some more. now its been a solid week of silence and… i desperately want to talk. i know its pathetic… i know, but is there anything i can say where i sound mature enough to let him know that i do still want him in my life? he’s quite immature and likes to play games-he came crawling back last time because i kept strong. this time i just can’t. i have a txt ready to send saying: “i know you’re probably not interested and i totally understand but i miss my best friend. it’s alright if you’re over it, i just want to know if we can still talk”. yay? nay? help…

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An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (4 minutes after post)

i love him

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An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (7 minutes after post)

if you want a person to talk to im here tho i dont know u u can add me :D

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An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (12 minutes after post)

theres no relationship there… i just want something back

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An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (15 minutes after post)

should i send the txt…?

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An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (32 minutes after post)

im gona send it.
**** it-lifes too short for holding back

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An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (1 hour, 39 minutes after post)

Love and life suck sometimes. i don’t know how old you are, but if you are still in high school then you will grow out of this and it’s rare that highschool couples last… i know it’s the fairytale ending but it doesn’t always work out. Prayer is always an open conversation with God, and really unless he treated you like a princess then you deserve much better. I like to make a list of pros and cons for a person and if the cons out weigh the person it’s not a healthy choice in my love life….I’ll chat with ya

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