girl help: wow, this is confusing.

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wow, this is confusing.

okay, me and my bf have been dating for about 3 months but we broke up about 2 weeks ago and got back together. we are doing okay now, but over the weekend me and a group of people went on a trip to virginia. one of my crushes was there,and we had the greatest time ever. we didnt do anything, but it was still really great. well,i found out that he liked me too and i was so excited until i rememered my bf. i didnt know what to do. matt(which is my crush) is very sweet, caring, honest, hilarious, and he is just a great guy. on the other hand, my bf is sometimes loving, mostly on other girls, he can be a jerk sometimes, he can be sweet, but i dont know. i just dont feel the same way about him anymore. i would break up with him, but we had a talk the other day about long relationships, and at the time, i really wanted one with him. and i told him i did, but if i break up with him, i’ll sound like a lliar.and the last break-up we had, i told him i wouldnt break up again,but i just dont know what to do. so please help me. thanks.

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~~EdieAnne~~ 6 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (6 minutes after post)

buttons, my first question to you is, How old are you?
Yeah it does matter!

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An Unknown Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (7 minutes after post)

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~~EdieAnne~~ 6 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (16 minutes after post)

Ok, buttons.
You started this post by saying “this is confusing”.
You are sooooo right.
I am 29, and I am thinking now
“Wow, so young and under so much pressure here”
You stated that you and your boyfriend had a break up already.
That right there was a warning light.
I don’t know what caused THAT breakup, but still it probably just put a big glitch in your relationship.
So, when you meet up with someone who is being sweet and attentive,You just felt good.
That is very natural.
I think that in your heart, you are really in your heart longing to just move on.
You also said that your boyfriend is sweet to other girls.
Hmm. Another warning light.
Buttons, you are way to young to sit back and watch this kind of behaviour.
This is the time for you to have fun and to form the woman that you will be very shortly.
Talk to the boyfriend again, and settle up.
Time to see all the people you want to and have all the fun that you can.
Aw, worry about all the entanglements later in life.
LIVE, buttons!!! Edie

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~~EdieAnne~~ 6 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (19 minutes after post)

Hehehe, I just SAW that. Whoa JJ!! :oD

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Genesis721 10 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (23 minutes after post)

You should be having fun, not tied down to a relationship. Your missing out on so much more then when you stick with one person. There is plenty of time for that later on.

Not being in a long term relationship releases you from the guilt of liking this guy or that guy. You are just open to having fun and living life.

buttons 0 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (1 hour, 4 minutes after post)

okay. thanks guys. you made me realize alot of things.
thanks. :)

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Genesis721 10 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (1 hour, 40 minutes after post)

Your welcome, come back again and let us know how things are working out for you. All the best is wished for you.

~~EdieAnne~~ 6 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (1 hour, 44 minutes after post)

Just take it easy on yourself,buttons. Yeah please come back and let us know what’s up. Easy breezy! Edie

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buttons 0 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (2 days, 11 hours after post)

hey i broke up with my boyfriend today and i took your advice and you have no idea how much more happier i am. he got pretty p’d off, but i dont care anymore. i just wanted to let you guys know that you helped me so much and i appreciate it. thanks guys!! :)

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~~EdieAnne~~ 6 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (2 days, 12 hours after post)

Well, it is so good that you came back and told us, bottons.
Yay! I hope that you stay happy and feel really good about YOU.
Take it easy now, buttons. My shout box is always open for you.
Edie

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idiocyinbubbles 5 #
Whittier, CA, US | 10 months, 4 weeks ago (2 weeks, 5 days after post)

Chose the one you like more
Aka the cuter one lol ;)
It’s easy.

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idiocyinbubbles 5 #
Whittier, CA, US | 10 months, 4 weeks ago (2 weeks, 5 days after post)

oh nm i just saw your post

hey why the hell does stupid help edit all your posts?

the previous is not even what i wrote.

bleh.

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