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im a sophmore in high school and ive never really had a girlfriend before.

I really like this junior who is in band with me. we’re becoming pretty good friends and im pretty sure that she likes me also. Both of us are kinda on the shy said. as i said though, ive never really had a gf before and im not exactly sure what to do or how to move forward. any and all help is greatly appreciated!

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predatorkick offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 12 months ago (4 minutes after post)

Awww! Thats good you have become friends. If I were you I would find just the right moment and ask her. Good Luck!

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Braad offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 12 months ago (15 minutes after post)

I suggest asking for her number and talking to her on the phone some and then from that you can ask her out.

Just don’t wait too long. You don’t wanna get in the friend zone unless you just wanna be friends ;)

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12 months ago (47 minutes after post)

Braad wrote:
I suggest asking for her number and talking to her on the phone some and then from that you can ask her out.

Just don’t wait too long. You don’t wanna get in the friend zone unless you just wanna be friends ;)

the waiting too long is what im worried about. Im really not sure how to ask her.

also im no sure how my parents would react and im not exactly sure if THEYRE ready. Im the oldest kid in my family so i really have no clue what to do, how to do it, or how my parents would react. I really think she’s a special person though and im worried that she might be starting to think that i dont like her back if i dont make a move. im really confused.

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ChristopherB1u offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 12 months ago (1 hour, 40 minutes after post)

ask if she want to go see a movie with you, say it can be just as freinds or whatever. then make ur move. pay for everything reach in to the pop corn at the same time so ur hands touch. or ask for her number

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ChristopherB1u offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 12 months ago (1 hour, 41 minutes after post)

they would probly be more worried if u never asked a girl out and u were 20

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jasmine offline Verified User (3 years) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
SG | 12 months ago (20 hours, 26 minutes after post)

go out for movies.. take her for lunch or dinner.. give her little presents..[and have little notes tat says tat u think she’s.. [whatever you think she is..eg. cute, sweet, etc]

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Anonymous #
12 months ago (1 day, 1 hour after post)

I don’t know, its an interesting dilemma. Some people never date in highschool, and thats perfectly fine. Be honest, try not to alienate yourself in advances. If your honest, and she also feels something for you, things should workout.

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ChristopherB1u offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 12 months ago (1 day, 19 hours after post)

i never dated in highschool. i have a girl freind now tho

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