Is it Wrong? - Help.com

No. There’s nothing wrong with it. Though, some people would like you to think there is.

You have to find someone attractive to really make a relationship. Even if it is over looks. You may find someone pretty but others may think differently. Its not wrong.

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

It’s only realistic that most people would choose the more attractive one if the essence of the person was the same.

Im not saying it is wrong. Im totally attracted to hot girls. But too many times that is where it ends. Once I spend time with them they just become so ugly. When people can use their looks they dont develop any other skills or knowledge. Still at the same time, I want to be attracted to someone. When that basic feeling is not there, nothing else matters.

To me it depends on whether or not the physical detractor on their part is beyond their control or not.

I think a girl who has a horrible facial scar from an accident when she was a child, it would be wrong to just reject her because of that. It’s beyond her control.

But being overweight - and when I say overweight I don’t mean a few extra pounds, but severely overweight - is well within a person’s control. And it’s understandable to not be attracted to that. To me, my concern is, if a girl doesn’t care about herself, then how can she care about me?

So basically, I think it’s wrong to be shallow over physical disfigurements, diseases, natural oddities, etc that are beyond one’s control. But I don’t think it’s wrong to be un-attracted to obesity or poor hygiene, things that are within one’s control.

Nah, but what you may see as pretty, someone else might see as ugly. So whatever, do what works for you. I just hope looks aren’t the only factor you judge on.

There are a lot of “beautiful” girls who have rotten personalities, and there are a lot of “so-so” girls who have engaging minds and beautiful personalities.

EVERYBODY likes to see the pretty little snobs get theirs! ;-)

There really are some pretty women with nice personalities. Snap judgments are bad in any case!