sex help: Sexy dreams of ex - Help.com

pick a path and run with it.

If you flirt about with ex, your new girl is getting trodden on. Even if she puts up with it, it means your dating someone getting trodden on, and they aren’t as fun in the long run.

Why did you break up with your ex?

I believe it’s time to pick one or the other. if you chose your current girlfriend, I’d cut ties with you ex as much as possible. simply to help disconnect youself on an emotional level as well. either way, think it out and stick with your choice. be loyal.

don’t sever, just give yourself a solid six weeks without contact.

Nothing unusual about having sexy dreams about your ex. Nothing troublesome, either. The troublesome part is that you told her about them–and she told you about hers. This means you are playing mind games, and, to be frank, messing around on your current relationship.

You can either pick one of the two and pursue her, or you can explain to your current girlfriend that, although you would like to continue keeping company with her, you are not fully over your previous romance and cannot give her any kind of a commitment until you have emotionally resolved the other situation.

Who knows? She may not even want a commitment from you, and may be perfectly happy to let things play out as they will. After all, she could still have an ex she is dreaming about, too.

Yeah you really need to put up some barriers. If you’re happy with your girlfriend and your ex is just that, your ex, then you need to create some ground rules. No flirting. You don’t want to excite these dreams, even though, they’re not bad at all. How many people dream about celebrities? All the time. It becomes a problem only if you allow it to.