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In need of some dating advice.

The truth is, I’m not looking for a long-term relationship; I’m not even sure where I want to go in the short term right now. I just feel that I should get some more dating experience and have a good time with an interesting and funny girl.

The last relationship I had was an online one that ended badly on all sides (that could be a rant in itself, but that’s another matter entirely). That was almost 2 years ago and during that time I haven’t spent any time really attempting to date again. I don’t have much experience in the field to begin with and I’m not really sure how to start. I’m 21 years old, so the bar scene is a possibility for me, but I’m not entirely sure how I feel about doing that. There are maybe two girls that I would consider going out with on campus, but both of them are currently in relationships.

Any advice would be appreciated.

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ivt_ss1 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 12 months ago (7 minutes after post)

look onestly i have no experiance thru but i have lived enought to know well. U r the only 1 who knows wat to do if u want a guy look 4 1 im disponible call me if u fell like it!!! *) (915)633-3374 just in case!!!!!!

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chunkymove offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Unknown Location | 12 months ago (8 minutes after post)

get out and about doing stuff you like. Start with making friends and stuff and learnign about the sort of girl you want.

Also, learn from your last relationship instead of just doing it all over again.

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~bee~ offline Verified User (12 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 12 months ago (20 minutes after post)

It sounds like you really don’t know what you want, so it would be a bad idea to look for a serious relationship. Figure out what makes you happy and what you want out of life. Where do you see yourself in 5 years? Next year?

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