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first date

my first date with this girl, we both like eachother but like how should i come across? what shouldnt i and should i do?

thanks

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littlenick offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 126 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (11 minutes after post)

How long have you known each other?

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azza992 offline Verified User (2 years, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
GB | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (12 minutes after post)

a few months

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all-day-dreamer offline Verified User (11 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (15 minutes after post)

Be yourself for a start, u sound like u guys got stuff in common as it is so thers some positives straight away.

Find common ground with her and enjoy the conversation, and dnt worry about saying loads or not saying enough, chances are she’s as nervous as you. just women can hide it better ;)

tell her the things u want most in ur life, and at the same time find out hers. u may already know somethings she wants if uve knew her a few months talk about that.

- Compliments dont hurt.
- Sweet gestures go a long way
- If your relaxed it will reflect on you in a good way
- ENJOY YOURSELF!!

Good luck m8

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littlenick offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 126 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (20 minutes after post)

Play it cool. Don’t exagerate. Talk about the weather. Talk about sports. Ask her what her interests are. Mention that you like her perfume (if she’s wearing any). Tell her about her nice hair! Girls like it when you notice their shoes specially if they are nice shoes!

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An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (21 minutes after post)

Is she a hotie?

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azza992 offline Verified User (2 years, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
GB | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (23 minutes after post)

haha yeah shes a very nice girl :D

i’m just very nervous whenever im around her!
im going on the date on friday :D but meeting up 2moro aswell so hopefully the nerves will go after a few meetings!!!

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littlenick offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 126 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (29 minutes after post)

Mention to her that you are looking forward to your date and that you feel like a very special man (Extra Walmart Special), because she accepted to go on a date with you and the anticipation of the date is making you very nervous and you hope not to disappoint her. That way when you finally go out on the date if something silly comes out of your mouth (I’m sure it won’t), she will attribute it to your being nervous and trying to impress her! She will be flattered that you are trying to impress her. But, don’t try too hard, OK! Don’t over do it!

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