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My husband and I have been married for 3 years and

we just got our house a year ago and have a 2 year old daughter, he works out of town and is only home on the weekends but everyweekend his mom, dad, brother and sister come over and stay the night every single weekend and sometimes they stay for the whole week and eat all the food and never help me around the house! I am tired of it and miss my husband and he feels that there is nothing wrong with this picture… I just wish us 3 can be together and not feel married to his family.

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Barbyman offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (6 minutes after post)

why don’t you just say this week i want to get away from your House .Stay over night somewhere else .Maybe that gives the Family something to think about…

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An Unknown Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (7 minutes after post)

i think you need to set some boundaries. u need to say to his family that you love their company but you need your own personal space as well.

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An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (12 minutes after post)

Maybe you and your husband could slip over to his parents’ home during the weekend to have some time to yourselves.

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An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (22 minutes after post)

Do something else on the weekends, go out with just your family. If they want to stay at your house, let them, but tell them that they are responsible for themselves and what they do. If you really don’t want them there, either you tell them or don’t serve them. This happened to my aunt and all she did is show them that she have no time for them, only for her family. She didn’t cook or clean and they eventually left. Although I don’t really know your situation.

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