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evansent:) offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 433 #
GB | 12 months ago (1 minute after post)

eh!my little dolphin :)
is that what was wrong with you y.day??
why didnt you tell me?

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An Unknown Location | 12 months ago (15 minutes after post)

dont worry about it if u want to cry its okk if it makes u feel better its fine just try nt to get 2 upset

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An Undisclosed Location | 12 months ago (20 minutes after post)

Crying usually relieves whatever strain you might be having on your heart and soul. The pain stays for a while but then slowly dissipates and completely disappears. It will take you a while but you will do it. Once you finally resign yourself that you may never have a relationship with that person again, it will all be gone from your heart and mind. But, you need to try to be strong. Life is never easy and neither are relationships that were not meant to be. It’s all a big gamble. Sometimes you win and sometimes you will lose. But we should not get stuck on the times when we lose. You should be resilient enough to be able to try to move on and build other bridges with someone else. I hope everything works out for you. Best wishes!

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12 months ago (33 minutes after post)

I understand where you are coming from, I feel exactly the same way - except for the fact that I can’t cry, and all the emotion is bottled up within me. I feel like I’m imploding. So yes, it is perfectly - PERFECTLY - ok for you to cry, be glad you are able to! It will help you deal with the pain so you will be able to slowly begin to move on. All the best!

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An Unknown Location | 12 months ago (34 minutes after post)

Cry if you need to, but dust it off because tomorrow is a new day. It might seem like there was nobody as great as this person and that you will never find the kind of connection that you had with anyone else but you will. Eventually the pain will subside and will allow you to fall in love again. Keep a positive outlook. Know that you deserve someone who will love you unconditionally and not hurt you like you are hurting now. A few months is not too long. The worst thing you can do is isolate yourself and dwell on that pain. I know how it feels and it will be hard but you just have to brush it off.

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An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 4 weeks ago (6 hours, 58 minutes after post)

Thanks everyone! Low moment in my life, but your words helped me through, each and everyone of you. As I often say, it’s great to know that you guys care. I don’t have this kind of support in real life. For an update to the situation you can see my new post. I’m going to close this one, as it’s served its purpose.

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Is it okay for me to cry everyday for a love I lost months ago?

Like, when things remind me of her, I get flashbacks to what we had and I feel so alone. I feel betrayed and hurt that she could move on so fast, like I meant nothing to her.

I know it’s good that I cry though, because I’ve finally let the truth hit me that it truly is over. Now I can stop living in the fantasy that she might come back. It’s just weird, I never really cried over her before…

But what can I do to turn the sadness that makes me cry into something useful? I feel like an *** crying over someone who doesn’t care about me.

Anyway, thanks to whoever replies. I’m gonna go lie down, I’ll be back in a while.

~Nisa [NiSatan]

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