Frustration help: My mother invited my entire family to her Christmas party, except my husband, 14 year old son & myself. - Help.com



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My mother invited my entire family to her Christmas party, except my husband, 14 year old son & myself.

I am pissed off now because she has since asked my brother to ask my son to come along, I don’t even want to ask my 14year old son to go, but I feel like if I don’t then he will miss out on visiting with cousin’s, aunt’s & uncles.

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littlenick online Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 152 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (35 minutes after post)

What did you do to your mom that she does not want you and your husband there?

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An Unknown Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (14 hours, 33 minutes after post)

It is actually what my mom did to us, we also have an 18 year old daughter who has a boyfriend in the airforce. He is stationed in Japan and our daughter wanted to take the summer after graduation and go to Japan to spend 8 weeks with him. We said no and said she needed to stay home & ready herself for college. If by next summer they were still together (they had only been dating for 6mos and yes, he is from our home town) then we would consider helping her pay for a trip to see him. My mother then purchased her airline tickets behind our backs and then lied about it. Needless to say, we are very angry about the whole situation. She says she is sorry but has done nothing to prove it and has totally neglected us since.

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An Unknown Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (14 hours, 37 minutes after post)

Oh, by the way — she DID invite our daughter!

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