Gift help: Need help deciding on a gift for a rude little girl lol

anna515

Need help deciding on a gift for a rude little girl lol

Alright, so Christmas is coming up and i’m having trouble figuring out what to get my younger sister (she’s 13). Here’s the problem: she’s the “baby” of the family and so of course she get’s everything she wants, never punished, and my parents always give in to her, feeding her fire so in turn she’s become a terribly spoiled little brat to say the least. She’s becoming more and more rude, selfish, snobby, stuck-up..i mean i could go on and on lol but the point is she really can’t keep treating people the way she is and she has got to stop acting so horrible.
So for the past year or 2 i decided that maybe if i stopped giving her presents during the holidays and her birthday ..then maybe it would help…..wrong lol she’s only gotten worse so i need something that’s going to possibly teach her a lesson or make her realize the way she’s acting.
I’ve thought maybe like buying a book or something on manners lol (maybe she would get the hint) but i’m not too sold on the idea.
This is where you guys come in :)
Does anyone have any ideas on what i could give this poor child? lolol

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Laina1312 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (3 minutes after post)

Coal… tell her to rub it real hard and she’ll eventually get a diamond.

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Dragon_Lady 5 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (5 minutes after post)

Well, if you don’t buy her something YOU will look like the bad guy. She’s seen as not doing anything wrong, so anyone who isn’t charmed by her behavior must have a problem of their own.

I guess I would try to take her somewhere for the day, and work a bit of psychology on her. Take her to say, the zoo. While you’re there, treat her like a princess everytime she’s nice, polite, does something right. Stop talking to her altogether -walk away if you have to- whenever she does or says something nasty or rude.

You’ll be seen as good for taking her. And she may learn something. I’ve used this technique on several people -grownups- with great success. Just losing your attention is often enough to change their behavior.

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Cell 54 #
Winnipeg, MB, CA | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (8 minutes after post)

How bout a good role model of kindness and love?

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littlenick 131 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (15 minutes after post)

Give her a little plastic cow that farts!

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i_think_i_like_mea 0 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (27 minutes after post)

Give her a really nice gift. Give her something popular (please don’t give her a gift card, I’m sick of those) Include a card that says something truthful about the way she’s been acting, but not to harsh.

Let her know that you care about her.

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Anonymous #
11 months, 2 weeks ago (35 minutes after post)

flaming bag of poop

chev.jame 1 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (2 hours, 51 minutes after post)

Give her something nice . . . ’tis the season for love and reconciliation!

Florimouse 26 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (2 hours, 57 minutes after post)

Admit to yourself that you would like to be treated that way too. :)

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Bondo 0 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (3 hours, 32 minutes after post)

i like the book idea( idiot’s guide to manners might work) But maybe what she is looking for is not getting everything that someone can buy her but someone who will genuinely care enough about her to, for lack of a better statement, tell her off but end it with “but I still ove you’, and mean it. Your parents are kinda blowing her off by giving in to her and giving her things to pasify her. I know it won’t be easy but you should come along side of her and stand in for your parents. I know she will fight you at first, but if you really care and show it she will come around in time. I hope you will do the right thing and I will pray for you and your sister.

Laina1312 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (3 hours, 34 minutes after post)

No one liked my idea. :(

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Bondo 0 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (3 hours, 37 minutes after post)

that is not true, Laina. I laughed so hard that shot Dr. Pepper out of my nose. ( I have one of those cows on the top of my monitor that a co-worker gave me one year.

Laina1312 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (3 hours, 38 minutes after post)

Yay!!!

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Amaretto 3 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (8 hours, 31 minutes after post)

Make a donation to a charity in her name… and present her with a certificate of the wonderful gift she shared!

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